Sex

Advice About Sex

There are three main categories of advice:

  1. Dating

  2. Relationships

  3. Sex

If you don't find an answer to your problem in these columns, ask Doctor Love your own question!

17 Year Old Who's Into Sado-Masochism (SM)

August 24, 1998

Hi, I am a 17 year old male and i have been having SM fantasies ever since I was seven. I am capable of enjoying regular sex but i greatly prefer BDSM. I play the dominant role in this type of encounter. Some say that partners switch roles from time to time but i would hate to be submissive. Anyway, I was wondering whether or not I was born with this sexuality or if it was created by some past experience.

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61 and Horny as Hell

June 1, 1998

Dear Dr. Love,

I have been married for forty years. Sex was poor twenty years ago. ten years ago it stopped entirely. We have a good marriage and she is my best friend. But I am very lonely. She loves me but is asexual. I could understand an affair. but she truly does not have ANY desire. I am 61 healthy and pardon the expression horny. your advice would be appreciated.

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A Hairy Situation

July 26, 2004

Hello Dr. Love,

First of all let me express my congratulations for the articles on this site, they are all very interesting and helpful. But this is not the main reason why I write to you.

I have something to ask you which is a bit or might be unusual to ask. . . how should I put it. . . i have been for sometime with someone, a girl that I get along quite well with and I think soon enough we will come up to that moment when we are going to know each other better and make love.

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A Little Worried. . .

April 11, 2005

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years, we have sex a few times a week and when we started having sex we were very protective. He would wear a condom ALWAYS and I would be on the pill.

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A Man in a Seemingly Cumbersome Situation

August 24, 1998

Dear Dr. Love,


I, first off, would like to applaud you for the wonderful service that you are providing to people that, may otherwise, be unable to find someone or be unable to afford the services that you are providing.

In doing some research, I happened to stumble upon your site and was astonished to find that someone is actually trying to help people and doing it for free. Thank you for all your time and effort.

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A Sad Man

May 18, 1998

Dear Dr. Love,
I am a 38 year old, single male. I was violently raped by two men when I was 14 years old. It was such a traumatic event that I have never been able to make love to a woman for fear of inflicting the same pain and torment. I have given up on having a relationship in my lifetime. I hope you have may still have hope for me. Can you please advise me?

Thank you,
A sad man

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A Strange Problem

February 23, 2004

Hi Doctor,

I want to tell you one of my problem. I am married and mother of a child. A year back i got married. The problem is that my husband has turned lovemaking into rape. He hardly caresses or gives foreplay.

What he does is take off my cloths and intercourse after five six kisses. I am getting upset and want to get rid of this nonsense and humilation.

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Abdominal Pain and Discharge

September 21, 2010

I'm 24 years old.

I'm not so happy with what happened between me and my girl friend. Let me lay it out here so you might be able to help me with a suitable solution.

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Addicted to Oral Sex

January 9, 2001

Yes, my husband and I have been married for 14 years and our sex life is great, but and yes there is a but, I like for him to go down on me. He has done it maybe 4 time in 14 years.

He said that it is something that he could do without. I told him I like it and need it like a drug addict needs a fix. and that i felt that both of us should do whatever the other wants us too, to fulfill each other.

He said he would start doing it more often if I would make it taste like something good to eat. Any suggestions?

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Afraid to be Intimate

March 25, 2003

Dear Dr. Love,

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years since I was 15. Unfortunately my first sexual experience was forced on me by an older close friend of mine after my 18th birthday.

Since then my boyfriend and I have had trouble getting physically close because I was afraid of being hurt again. Because of that he rejected me out of heartbreak and frustration and I started seeing someone at my old work.

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