March 2005

Dr. Turndorf,

Hi I am an 18 year old United States sailor. I have had previous relationships but always when they have come up to me and started talking.

Now that I live in a bigger city (Norfolk VA) I don't run into women that easily. I realised I have no game and now is when I feel that it is time for me to get in a serious relationship. I have always wanted one.

Do you have any advice that might help me meet the ladies.

Dr. Turndorf, I have recently started dating a new man. When we became intimate one night in the shower he started to pee on me. . . I freaked out and told him to stop and it was unacceptable.

Since then I can't stop thinking about it and wonder why would any man want to do that to his woman? I think it's gross and I want to move past this but having trouble letting it go.

What makes a man want to do that and why?

What Do You Think

Dear Doctor,

Thanks a lot for handling all lovers' problems. I'm 28 years old and am going steady with a 26 year since last year.

We are in different states. I went to visit her and it was some of the best moments in my life. But the problem is that she has had many more experiences than me and I start to worry if we are really in love or if she only wants to pass the time with me, as she's done before.

Hi,

I have some issues with my girlfriend that I am clueless about what to do. This is her 1st real relationship and she has been with one guy before me only. They had sex only a few times. Now we have been together for over 9 months and we are really serious about our relationship and the future. Now we have been sexually active for about 7 months.