October 2005

Hi

me and my boyfriend recently broke up because I caught him cheating on me! Now he is apologizing and I am sure when I forgive him that he will assume that I will go out with him again! So should I accept his apology?

Also should I go out with a guy that I've had my eyes on ever since we broke up? Should I be the one to ask the guy out?

Please reply as soon as possible! My heart is broken and I don't know what to do!

Thank you and have a great day.

Dear Dr. Love,

I agreed to let my boyfriend of 3 years sleep with another girl one time in agreement that he would then try to get me pregnant again. And so it happened with one of my friends from school.

After that I heard nothing else from him except about her. . . how beautiful she was, how good she kissed and great that night was!! Of course he got greedy and wanted it again so this time I made him promise me that we would get married and that I would never hear about it again.

I'm in a relationship right now, and I'm very happy w/ my partner. Honestly I've never been happier in all my life. I found happiness w/ him. We plan on getting married next year, and we try to live together because our room is beside each other.

Is there a chance of changing our treatment to each other right now as soon as we get married? Is there also a chance the marriage would be successful?

Thanks a lot.

Dear Dr. Turndorf,

I have been very close to this girl for over a year now. I have really liked her and think about her every waking hour. I asked her out before but she says that she just wants to be friends. She has turned down other guys for the same reason.