April 2007

I met a guy 4 yrs ago whilst traveling and he moved countries to be with me. We had a really great relationship; enjoyed being together and were very comfortable & talked a lot.

After 2 years of living together I had a miscarriage and he confessed after this that he had been unfaithful. We split & didn't see each other for 2 months after which time we started spending time together again.

He seemed to have changed or at least grown up a bit.

Dear Dr Turndorf

I am a widow of two years. I started dating my neighbor and it was wonderful. We always went camping all summer, we were best friends. He is forty eight and never been married. He hasn't lived with any one in nineteen years. He moved in with me a year later and after a few months I felt there was a line in between us and then one day he just walked out on me.

And two days prior I asked him if he was thinking about leaving and he said no. He didn't leave a note or anything. Could you please give me some kind of reason for this problem. Thank You

Stella and I have been friends for a couple of months.

Since then we have gotten much closer than we used to be and I fell in love with her. The problem is that she has a boyfriend for 18 months and she doesn't know my feelings.

We are close friends now and she tells me that her boyfriend does not treat her well. I don't know what to do. Although she argues very often with him their relationship still continues.

Please could you advise me what to do?

I am 29, mother of 1 (3 year girl) engaged to her father who I have been with for 6 years. Wedding date is 2. 5 months away.

From the beginning our relationship has been a rocky one. Lots of arguments, many in front of our daughter. But if my daughter had not come into the picture I know I would have broken it off long ago. But 6 years later and I haven't had the guts to do anything about.

I love him cause he's the father of my child and because I have spent the last 6 years with him. I know that he loves me totally and would be crushed to find out any different.