May 2007

My boyfriend and I have been dating now 9 months.

Last week, he had off work one day so I had asked him if he would like to go to lunch with me that day. He told me that he had already made lunch plans with someone else. When I had asked him who, he said his ex!

Now, he said that he wasn't going to tell me because he didn't know how I would react to him going out with her. I would have been really mad if I had found out afterward that he had gone to lunch with her without telling me, but I told him that I was fine with it, that it was ok that he go.

I just got married about a month ago, and everything is great in the marriage, more than I could ever want. My problem is that I still haven't gotten over my ex, and I don't want this to come between my husband and I.

I've tried talking to my husband about it, but he gets upset over it. I'm not too sure about what to do now. How can I stop this from ruining my marriage?

Hello,

it gives me great pleasure to write to you. I want to know your opinion. I knew a guy through the net and he's from another country. In the beginning, he used to call me daily, but after a while he stopped calling me. A few times I sent him SMS but he didn't answer back.

I thought he was mad at me or something, but on the contrary he said he was so busy. Also he promised to visit my country but instead of this he visited other countries! After about 3 months he stopped calling me though I'm always calling him. I don't call him he asks me to.

Hi Dr. Love.

I am a college female and I am desperate for advice. I am in a two-year relationship with someone that I love so much, but when he does something wrong I let him get away with it after staying mad for a day or so.

However, I only did one thing wrong by not trusting him and he wanted to break up until I begged him not to. He set down rules such as I cannot look at his cell phone or ask where and with whom he goes on the weekends.