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Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 04/02/2002 - 8:00pm
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April 2, 2002

Question

My girlfriend and I have a good sex life, but I am a little too long and it is somewhat frustrating to me when my penis is jamming the end when it's all the way in, it's not really comfortable when we have what would be the most satisfying deep penetration. My last marriage failed in part because of a much bigger misaccomodation.

Will childbirth in any way extend her vagina, for instance does it become fleshier at the opening which might help? She likes it, it doesn't bother her a bit.

Also, I'm a very fit 6' 2 athletic 205 pounder and she is 5' 4 and about 110 with very small hands. Sometimes I am frustrated because I feel like we're just the wrong size for each other. Again, she like it a lot, whereas i feel like I want more body. She has a nice shape.

I have to figure out if this is just a neurosis for me to get over, and a roadblock I'm throwing up out of my fear of commitment or something really important. Do you know the statistics on marital success when a man is so much bigger than a woman.

The couple of people I've confided with (both women) think I'm neurotic as hell - but then again they all like a big man. Thanks for your advice


Answer

The vagina is very flexible and accomodating and is usually able to 'handle' all size penises. It has been reported that women experience pain when being penetrated by exceptionally large penises.

From what you say, your partner isn't at all uncomfortable with your size. Rather, it is you who feels pain at the tip of your penis when you penetrate deeply. It is possible that her vaginal canal is too short for your very long penis.

Even if this is so, you can experiment with different sexual positions. For example, the woman on top position allows deeper penetration, and you may be able to penetrate her more deeply without jamming the head of your penis. You might also consider rear entry (doggie style) or side by side positions, which don't allow as deep penetration, so that you will be less likely to slam the head of your penis.

You also mentioned that you may be using your long penis as an escape tool, no pun intended. By all means explore and try to resolve your commitment fears. When you do, you may find that your large penis is longer a big deal.

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