Chasing Dreams in Ohio

Your love affair isn't crazy at all.

You have come to know this woman intimately through the letters and phone calls that you've exchanged. Think about the courtships that have occurred throughout history. Many people have fallen in love through written correspondence alone! You both have had more contact than that.

You have also spoken at length by phone and have exchanged photos. All that 's left to do is to meet and let nature take its course! I hear that you think you're crazy or chasing dreams. I think you need to figure out why you have these ideas.

I have the impression that you think the connection you have formed isn't real (that 's it's a crazy dream) precisely because you haven't been meeting face-to-face. But, again, remember what I said about the deep relationships that have blossomed through letters alone.

In order to ease your mind, before you meet in person, why use my Is She Ready for Love? consultation, which will help you assess whether she has emotional issues that might make her unready for a relationship.

Also, use my Compatibility Consultation, which will assess your level of compatibility. When you find out that she is, indeed, ready for love and that you are also very compatible with each other, you will feel more confident to meet her in person.

Then when you do, just be the same person that you are in your letters and phone calls. Let your heart lead you. Be the same man that you've been all along with her. Be yourself. Be open. Be you.

It is you, after all, with whom she's fallen in love, so why would you want to be anyone else? Follow your hearts, as you've been doing all along, and you will both be fine.