Condom Mystery

January 22, 2002

Question

Dr. Love,

I would really appreciate it a lot if you had a chance to answer one question that I have in concern of something that happens to me when I have intimae relations with my girlfriend.

I wanted to know why is it that when I use a condom I come so quick and when I don't use a condom I don't come. I hope you know what I mean? Thank you for your time!

THANKS! 


Answer

I must say that this is a new one. Usually males find it hard to ejaculate using a condom because the condom cuts down on their sensation.

It may be that your lack of orgasm when you are 'unprotected' by a condom may be a type of inhibition, which is an unconscious defense mechanism. It is possible that your unconscious mind is afraid to be that open or exposed and the ejaculatory inhibition may be an unconscious way of holding back in order to protect yourself. Explore the question and see what comes up (no pun intended).

- Doctor Love


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