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He Speeds the Process up by Flexing His Muscles

Submitted by Anonymous on Tue, 10/29/2002 - 8:00pm
October 29, 2002

Question

I have a slightly odd question about my boyfriend. The first few times I attempted to get him to come manually, it would never work. He takes way too long and either my hand or he wears out first.

So after he realized how frustrated I got, he told me he does something different when he masturbates himself. When he does, he flexes the muscles in his legs which evidently speeds the process up. He did this and let me try again, and this time it worked for me.

I was just wondering why and how this works, and if this heightens the feeling or anything. Thanks for your time.


Answer

What you describe is quite normal. Sexual arousal involves a build up of muscular tension, culminating in an orgasm, followed by a release of the muscular tension. Your boyfriend is speeding up his arousal process by intentionally tightening his muscles. He sounds just fine.

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