I Promised To Be There For Her

November 17, 2008

Question

Hi Dr Love,

I really love the way you tend to people's problems. Please i have a problem. There is a girl that I love and I said that I will always be there for her. We have been together for 1 year now. We had sex 6 times and now she says she is pregnant.


Answer

It's not clear what your question is.

Are you asking me what following through on your promise means now that she might be pregnant?

What did you mean when you made the promise? Oftentimes, people don't think about the tremendous responsibility that is inherent in a sexual relationship.

There are emotional ties and responsibilities. In the case of heterosexual sex, the possibility of pregnancy must also be considered. If you intend to keep your word, then you will be with her throughout this process.

You will support her emotionally and physically. If she decides to have the baby, then you will also assist her financially. I commend you for your responsibility.

Good luck to you both.

- Doctor Love


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