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Lost Your Sex Drive Since the Baby Came Along

Submitted by Anonymous on Wed, 05/03/2000 - 7:00pm
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May 3, 2000

Question

hi dr.love,

ever since i was pregnant with my second child i have not wanted to have sex, she is now 9 months old, -- my husband -- i have rarely had sex.

with my first child i had to be on bed rest -- hemmoraged -- he was a preemie! i wasn;t allowed to have sex, so with my second pregnancy i was so scared to have sex, -- have the same condition, -- then my husband masturbated in front of me, at first i tyhought it was sick, -- then i really enjoyed doing it with him, -- i never want to have sex, i'd rather us masturbate together, can u tell me why? *


Answer

As a result of the nightmare you suffered during your first pregnancy, you were naturally terrified to repeat the same experience. So, you substituted masturbation for intercourse.

The fact that you have never wanted to return to having intercourse makes sense. You don't ever want to risk reliving the nightmare of your first pregnancy.

The best way to insure that you don't have a painful pregnancy and/or a premature baby is to simply avoid having intercourse. We all tend to avoid pain, and the activities that might create it.

- Doctor Love

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