Hello Dr. Love.
I was wondering, me and my boyfriend have tried to make love but it was too painful for me. It obviously was my first time. I was wondering how it would lessen the pain? He tried to go slow but it didnt work.
I really want to make love to him but how can i when it hurts so much? How can I make it so it won't hurt so much?
I don't know if you are accustomed to inserting anything in your vagina. First of all, before you try to put anything inside your body, make sure that you are fully aroused and wet. Then, relax, breathe deeply, and begin by inserting something small, such as his finger. You can graduate to two fingers, then three, and finally his penis.
Above all try not worry, which will tighten your vaginal muscles. With a little practice under your belt (no pun intended) you should be fine.
- Doctor Love
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