Pretend Sex

April 23, 2002

Question

My boyfriend and I have what we call 'pretend sex'. Afterwards I am always scared that I will get pregnant. Is that possible?

We do not use a condom because we never plan to do this, and we never actually penetrate. Alls we do is that actions of sex, but sometimes his penis does touch that area. Can the sperm still survive?


Answer

It is possible to become pregnant if you are very lubricated and he ejaculates at the entrance of the vagina. Sperm are good swimmers, and they can get carried upstream (inside the vagina) on your own secretions.

So, to be safe, don't let him ejaculate near you, or have him wear a condom

- Doctor Love


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