She Says You're Too Serious

September 10, 2007

Question

I really liked this girl a lot from the moment I met her and this past summer we had fun and a lot of sex mixed into my feelings. I like her for both.

But there is one problem. She is in college far away and I am done with college. We are 800 miles away from each other, plus she is going to Spain this spring.

We miss each other. But that is all we have. We always talk about our feelings for each other and she says mine are too serious.

I don't know anymore about anything other than I really like her a lot. Please help me out with things.


Answer

If you care for her as much as you say you do, then fight for her! What do you have to lose?

Start by asking her the following:'When you say my feelings are too serious is that because you don't care for me the way I care for you. Or is it because you think it's impractical for us to sustain our relationship given the distance between us and the fact that you're going to Spain this spring.

If she says she cares for you just as much as you do, then tell her you don't care about the distance or her upcoming trip. Tell her that she's the one for you and you'll wait for her and you'll move heaven and earth to be with her.

Love can move mountains, scale any heights, and brave any distance. Don't give up on your love!

- Doctor Love


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