Why Can't I Make Her Love Me?

The language that you have used gives me a good clue as to why this woman isn't responding favorably to you. You ask what can you do to MAKE her SUBMIT to you. You are trying to strong arm and exert your power over her. This feels bullying and very unappealing.

Notice also that you are trying to convince her to like and/or love you. Your focus is all about you. . . . and what you want her to give you. . . . namely love. What you aren't doing is focusing on her. It's all about you and what you want. A woman wants to feel special, that 's she's your number one and only. She wants to know what you like and love about her above all other women.

To receive love you have to give love. . . . You must be other focused not self focused. You need to put your needs and wants aside and sacrifice yourself to her. Make her happiness your entire world. This isn't a game. This needs to come from your heart.

If you devote yourself to her in this way and she feels your sincerity, her heart will be yours; not because you beat her into submission, but because your love and devotion won her heart.