Wondering if You'll be Happy with Him Forever

No one can predict the future, however, we do know a couple of factors that seem to be linked to long term relationship satisfaction. One, couples who maintain the five to one ratio, that is they say and do five loving things per day to every one negative word or action seem to make it for the long haul.

Other factors associated with making it for the long haul are: the partner are best friends, both partner are similar in the areas that matter most, and this is an obscure one, women seem happiest with men who are androgynous, meaning that they have a healthy blend of male and female traits. The female aspects makes them better handling the emotional side of the relationship (listening, understanding, etc. ); and since marriage is essentially an emotional contract, being good at handling feelings is a real plus.

To find out how compatible you are, take my compatibility test, and if you score high, you have a really good shot together. Now let's talk about your fear of commitment. This is not a problem that will change all by itself, nor will time make the fear go away. Your best bet is to enter therapy and find out why you are afraid and resolve the issue once and for all.

Keep in mind that you have already made a commitment to this man by becoming pregnant with his child. If you aren't going to commit to him, then who would you commit to? Plus, you say that you love the man and he loves you. What do you have to lose by giving your love a chance.

If your compatibility score is high and you still feel scared, then you know the issue is due to your own unfinished business rather than a sign that he isn't right for you. Good luck in resolving your conflict.