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You Ejaculate too Quickly with Loose Women

Submitted by Anonymous on Thu, 12/27/2001 - 8:00pm
December 27, 2001

Question

Hi I a 31 y. o. male. Since about a year and a half now, I am not able to have a normal sexual act with a parter if her vagina 's is too big. I ejalucate very quickly.

I thought it was a psychological problem of P. E at first, but when having sex with certain women (Currently an Asian girl) with a much tighter vagina, I can perform normaly, almost as long as I want, without any decrease of sensation or pleasure and with strong orgasm. Just like I use to. It seems like when my penis is able to go in an out too loosely inside my partners, the sensation make me ejaculate really quikly.

My inability to perform normally independently from my partner's size occured after a knee operation. I had to be on pain killer and stay in bed for a week or two. Maybe some reaction to this. Whatever it is right after this episode, I was suffering from PE. I had multiple partners after that, all with the same results. Until I found a partner with a smaller vagina where my penis is always tight inside and everything is normal.

Is it a common problem ? Where does this come from. How can I resolve this and perform properly with any women size or type. I definitely put away the psychological factor of the problem. It seems to be mechanical only which is a releaf, but how to resolve it.

Thank you for your help. Appreciatively


Answer

It is not at all uncommon for a man to have ejaculatory problems when penetrating a woman with a loose vagina. Some men find it difficult to ejaculate at all when a woman is too loose or too wet because stimulation is cut down.

You ejaculate too quickly when having intercourse with a woman whose vagina is loose. For whatever reason, your level of stimulation seems to be heightened in such cases (maybe you thrust more easily or quickly when inside a looser vagina), and you, therefore, ejaculate more quickly. When penetrating a woman with a loose vagina, try positions (rear entry or side by side) that don't allow you enter as deeply. Since the entrance of the vagina is normally the narrowest and tightest part of the canal, this could very well mimic the sensation that you are penetrating a tighter vagina.

Above all, you need to accept that you aren't superman. It is normal to have a problem with an overly loose vagina and if you find that you don't perform as well with such women, so be it. You need to accept your body's reactions and avoid doing a 'head trip' on yourself (no pun intended).

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