Your Boner is Your Bone of Contention

I know how painful this must be for you. I don't know if it's any consolation to you, but the problem is quite common among young men. Rest assured that your spontaneous erections will lessen as you grow a bit older.

I know you are avoiding having a relationship because of your erections, but you might want to revise your thinking. For one thing, many men, including young men, don't easily achieve orgasms. So you are blessed in that sense.

Plus, I am quite sure that the women you date would consider you God's gift. So instead of avoiding women because of your spontaneous erections, you might come to view them as an asset.

I think the biggest problem (no pun intended) is how you are responding to your body's involuntary reactions. Because you are so upset, others tease you.

I am quite sure that if you could make peace with your piece, laugh at it just the way I am, you would be surprised to find that others will stop giving you a hard time! Laugh it up rather than hang your head in shame!