Latest Columns

This page lists all my latest advice columns in all categories.
There are three main categories of advice. Click on any of the following links to see a summary of articles in that category:
If you don't find the answer you're looking for in these advice columns, feel free to Ask Doctor Love your own question!
Dec 2, 2012
Sex Advice
My girlfriend and I have been dating for three weeks now. We care for each other and are affectionate, but there is no passion . . . which is very strange since most of my relationships are very steamy (and short).
One reason I can suggest is that I really cannot have sex with a condom; the latex coating dulls my sensation to the extent that no matter what kind of condom or lubricant I apply, I just do not respond well in intercourse . . . I stay somewhat erect, but have very little...
Dec 2, 2012
Sex Advice
I am a 30 year old male, and I have had a problem with premature ejaculation all of my sexual life.
I have just recently gotten in to a relationship and it started out that I could control it a little bit but now it seems the more I do it the worse it gets.
I have started having problems obtaining an erection because I am so worried about trying to control myself. Then when I get an erection I seem to ejaculate real quick because now I am trying to concentrate on getting an erection...
Nov 27, 2012
Sex Advice
Hi,
My issue is that I've never really had a normal sex life because of a deep seeded fear that I will not be able to obtain an erection. It's happened to me on more than one occasion with a new partner. I've read in another one of your advise columns that the hormones produced by fear are incompatable with those of sexual arousal. It makes perfect sense. Every time Im in a situation where sex would be initiated with someone Iam not 100% comfortable with I panic and try to avoid it at all...
Nov 27, 2012
Sex Advice
I am a 29 year old male who has noticed a significant decrease in penis sensation over the years. In fact, I really do not feel anything until about 30 seconds before I ejaculate. In order to get that far I need lots of oral sex with a strong hand grip going up and down from the female.
It has lessened my desire for sex and has destroyed some of my relationships. I wonder if there is a problem or if what I am experiencing is normal sexual sensations. If so, I can't even understand why...
Nov 27, 2012
Sex Advice
I am happily married, however my husband has no interest. We have been married for six years, and haven't had sex in over a year. I have done a psych self exam about my weight, attitude, and sought advice of many others. I am in my forty's and am really very interested in sex. However-- my husband, who is 45 seems less than interested. Please advise--
Nov 27, 2012
Sex Advice
Hello, I am an 18 year old male who is somewhat sexually active with my also 18 year old very beautiful female mate. I mean somewhat sexually active as we have felt each other 's body in all the places, have had oral sex, but not have actually had intercourse.
I face a sort of embarrasing problem. After a lot of foreplay and contact of our privates but while still dressed, the time comes that she attempts to give me a blow job. I am not capable of getting an erection while she does this...
Nov 20, 2012
Sex Advice
I am 41; my wife is 32. We have a 1 1/2 year old daughter. My wife has no interest in having sexual relations. The last time was about 10 months ago.
She has thyroid problems and is taking medication for that. We know that could be part of the cause of her lack of libido. She and I get along fine other than this.
When I bring up the subject, she does not want to discuss it much. I am very frustrated. Do you have any advice?
Nov 20, 2012
Sex Advice
Hello , I am 24 years old Female . I have one problem . It takes a long time for me to get excited & by the time I get excited my husband has fallen off. Is there any medicine or some method by which I can get excited in a short time of say 10 minutes ... Help me please. This has lead to fight & lots of disturbances in my life.


