Relationship Advice

This page lists all my latest advice columns in the Relationship Advice Category.
There are three main categories of advice: Relationships, Dating, and Sex. Click on any of the following links to see a summary of articles in that category:
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Nov 10, 1997
Relationship Advice
Dear Dr. Love,
I am only 15, but I have experienced love for the second time in my life. This guy and I talked of getting married when I graduated from college. I still love him with ALL of my heart. Somehow, he just fell out of love and drifted apart. The bad thing is, he lives 2, 000 miles away. I am going to be moving there this coming summer. We were going to have a SERIOUS relationship then. He used to comment on my intelligence and maturity, now he just talks about my chest and how he'd...
Nov 3, 1997
Relationship Advice
Dear Dr. Love,
recently my boyfriend accused me of cheating but get this, he said that i was cheatin because i flirt over the internet, i told him that he should be glad it was on the internet and not for real, he then proceeded to ask me about the email that i had recieved, i told him i would not show it to him, but it didnt matter because he already knew my password, when he began reading the mail that was sent to me (it was very erotic) he said 'i knew you were cheatin on me) he broke up...
Oct 26, 1997
Relationship Advice
I am a 28 year old female who has come to realize that I am hopelessly in love with a male co-worker. I have known this man for eight years since college and have had feelings for him all along. I have always had a weight problem, and until this last year have had no real sense of self-worth. I have made drastic changes in my life as far as losing weight, getting healthier and basically realizing how much I have to offer.
As for him, he divorced his wife of three years last Spring, and I have...
Oct 26, 1997
Relationship Advice
Dear Dr. Love,
I met this guy a year and a half ago and when we first met, he had a girlfriend so, despite the undeniable attraction we both felt for each other, we remained true friends for the entire year that him and his girlfriend went out. This summer he told me that we couldn't talk anymore till he and her break up because he was getting mixed emotions about me(wondering what me and him would be like). Finally, in mid-summer, he calls me and tells me he broke it off with her. I was happy...
Oct 20, 1997
Relationship Advice
Hi. Not really sure how I should head this, but, well, hi. Anyways, I am very deeply in love with a woman who is also my best friend, and we met online and talk on the phone all the time. We have everything in the world in common, and can talk for hours about nothing and have a wonderful time. She admitted to me when I told her how I felt that she felt the same way, but there is a problem.
She has a boyfriend, who she also loves very much. They have been together for a couple years, and from...
Oct 6, 1997
Relationship Advice
I am just ending a four month relationship with this 19yr old. I am 26 and believe in the traditional romantic courtship. In the begining I felt as though she was impressed by my interest in her. She is attending college while I am living a more stable and secure lifestyle. I began spending a lot of time with her family and grew to love her. Later after professing my love to her I realized that she just wanted to have fun and have a casual relationship, being able to enjoy the company of other...
Oct 6, 1997
Relationship Advice
I was sexually abused as a child by someone that I knew ( step-grandfather). Now, I have a very difficult time trusting my boyfriend and knowing that he really truly loves me. I get upset easily and I worry way too much. I don't know how to feel confident about his love for me. Please help. By the way, getting professional help is out of the question due to the amount of money it takes. Thanks!!
Sep 29, 1997
Relationship Advice
Dear Dr. Love,
I wrote you a letter back in I think in May or June. I am 36 years old and been dating a 36 year old guy for 7 years. He freaked out when I brought up the subject of committment and marriage. You had suggested that I give it some time because he may feel threated or backed into a whole. We decided to date other people for a while, and have each dated several other people. This seems to cause some jeolousy problems on each of our parts. I had a guy friend from out of town last...


