May 12, 2013
Hi Love Doctor, mine would be quite a long story and really thank you for the patience and time you took to read everything. :) here it goes... I got to know my girlfriend in school, we were very loving when we first got together, after being together for around 2months, her mum starts to disapprove our relationship as her mum thinks that my feelings for her daughter aren't real and that I do not love her. What made my girlfriend's mum to have the thought could be this: "One day, I was...
Jan 7, 2013
I messed up with my chance to get my ex bf back. We dated for almost one and half year, we had very healthy relationship, shared lots of interests, just like perfect match to each other. We broke up since he said he suddenly lost feelings for me, I tried to bring him back, I did not follow NC rules, we still talked, at that time seemed I had a good chance if I stayed calm and kept working. Then I did something super stupid, I found he was using some dating app, so I added him using a...
Dec 11, 2012
I have been in a relationship with a man for the last 11 months everything has been real good and I mean real good. All of a sudden he tells me that we need to slow things down and not see each other as much. My family and his spent the holidays and birthdays together. I think that he is scared of the closeness that we have now. He says that we need to be just friends. I don't know if I can just be friends with him because I'm in love with him and want to be with him as a couple not as his...
Nov 11, 2012
I'm afraid I need some advice. I am 22 and engaged to a man that I don't trustMutual trust is a shared belief that you can depend on each other to achieve a common purpose. More comprehensively trust defined as "the willingness of a party (trustor) to be vulnerable to the...(Click for full definition.). In the past year he has been arrested, fired, actually there has been too much trouble to mention. He isn't the same person that I fell in love with. Our main problem is that he lies to...
Nov 11, 2012
I am so confused. My boyfriend of 4 years has lied to me about an internet relationship that began over 4 months ago. He says that he has turned to the internet becaue he has limited friends and I am not around. He has dangled the'carrot' of living together as an option to marriage since he has two more years of school and lives over 300 miles away . I became aware of this relationship after he started talking about his ' e-mail buddy' and started knocking the concept of marriage. He said...
Oct 24, 2012
Im 24 yrs old, a nurse but i'm not practicing my profession because i'm helping out my parents' business. So heres the thing, I just broke up with my boyfriend 4 days ago. We've been together for 8 months, and i broke up with him a lot of time but ended up together again. Now, i've decided to break up with him because I DON'T think my family will accept him. He has a son already, he hasn't graduated college, doesn't have a job. I'm also worried about my future if i end up being...
Oct 13, 2012
My g/f and I have been together for 4 years. At the beginning of our relationship (about a year in) I found out that she was talking to other women. (We are both female she is 24 and I am 29) We briefly broke up, and about a month later got back together. Our sex was incredible in the beginning. We had sex a LOT, sometimes 5 times a day! We also smoke a LOT of Marijuana. I know that some case studies claim that Marijuana decreases your sex drive. I am...
Oct 1, 2012
Dr. Love, Hi This is the first time I ever asked someone besides my mother for advice but now I feel is like a really great time. So where do I start? I bet you get that alot. Two years ago I met a guy who was in the Coast Guard we dated for awhile and later became a couple. We spent almost every day together and we even got a dog. We went on vacation and always had alot of fun. Throughout the two years I was with him I always felt apart of me was incomplete, I assumed it had to do...
Sep 25, 2012
Hello Jamie I am 21 years old and i have been dating my boyfriend for two years and we broke up last year October. He thought I was cheatingSee Infidelity. on him and I was not it just that I have a lot of boy friends not girls you know what Imean then we broke up. I was very heartbroken then I stayed four monhts not dating, I begged him the whole four months but it was over then I get a new boyfriend that was very serious about me, he paid lobola for me and now my ex boyfriend is back. He...
Sep 9, 2012
Dear Dr. Turndorf, I am 26 years old and have been in a long term relationship with my partner(Ryan) since high school. We have been dating for 8 years now. I've never had any serious doubts about our relationship until about 6months ago. I'll admit our relationship has slowed down but I dismissed any insecurities I had assuring myself that it was just a phase all couples eventually go through. 6 months ago I found a new job working as a receptionist and I befriended a male co-worker, Ben...