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Chronic Illness

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Needing Love Again
Oct 24, 2005
Chronic Illness
Hello Dr. Turndorf, My name is Mike and I'm 23 years old. My wife is 42 years old. I know that 's a big diffrence in age, but ever since I layed my eyes on her I just couldn't stop thinking about her. Here is my problem, for the first year and a half our sex life was great, but now it's like she doesn't even want anything to do with me. Is it me or is there something that I'm missing in this battle to get some love time. Please help me understand. Thank you for your time.
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Drug Addiction and Mental Illness
Aug 29, 2005
Chronic Illness
Dearest Dr. Turndorf, I hope that you are doing well and that you are in good health. Thank you kindly for all the help that you provide to those who are in need. It is deeply appreciated. Please help me. I need to ask you questions that I desperately need answers for. My name is Lara, I hope that you remember me. . . My father was very abusive verbally, psychologically and physically with my mother and my brother and sisters. He traumatized us and I fear that the damage is permanent and will destroy my whole family. I managed to leave the house and find help for myself. I take...
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Less Than a Woman
Aug 4, 2003
Chronic Illness
In April i underwent emergency surgery and when i got to the recovery room my husband was crying when i asked why he said the took both my ovaries cause they were full of cancer that left a scar from my belly button to my pelvic area and then we found out i had colon cancer and had to get treatment. none of my hair is falling out or any thing but i had to get a mediport put in my chest and it is visible my husband can't get sexual with me cause of the physical scar and mediport and i already feel like half a woman with my ovaries being gone. it's very hard cause outsiders tell me how great i...
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How Can I Get Him to Want me Without Getting on My Knees First?
Apr 9, 2002
Chronic Illness
My question, I think, is a fairly common problem amoung a lot of people. I have been w/ my boyfriend for three years. We had great sex when we started dating. All the time and everywhere. Now things are different. He rarely touches me anymore. If we do have sex, I have to intiate it all of the time, which is really beginning to irritate me because I get nothing out of it. His stamina has dropped greatly. I am lucky if I get 5 minutes out of him. Honestly, it has been since Valentine's day since we have been intimate, and I have needs!! How can I get him to want me without getting on my knees...
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Am I Romantically Challenged?
Dec 3, 2001
Chronic Illness
i have a problem. i will feel a flickering infatuation for a guy that i am friends with. i will sometimes feel a connection, an attraction, a happiness with him that i don't feel for my other male friends but when i don't feel it i get confused. i would really like to have a relationship but i get scared that it wouldn't work. that is the way i am with any guy that i like. i will feel the warm loving feelings and fantasize about a relationship and marriage with him temperarily and then nothing. when i have the feelings they feel real and then when i am not feeling them i pick them apart and...
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Living with Jekel and Hyde
Oct 15, 2001
Chronic Illness
I have been living with a woman for over a year. She is caring, loving, and enjoys everyday life. However, equal amount of days it is like living with Jekel and Hyde. She cold, silent and acts as though I am in her space, even if I am in the house. She has always said people going to counsiling is stupid, they should work out their own problems. It is like a roller coaster ride, I don't know how she will be until I see her face. I try to be loving and respectful, however it is extremely hard when she acts hot and cold on a daily basis. This emotional ride is taking its toll. I don't know if I...
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Feels No Pleasure
Aug 27, 2001
Chronic Illness
Dear Dr. Love, I'd just had sex for the first time. I had an erection, but didn't feel anything pleasurable, nor ejaculated. A week went by, and I had sex for a second time w/ a diffeent women and still didn't experience the pleasure needed to ejaculate. What's wrong? PLEASE HELP
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Flustered
May 2, 2001
Chronic Illness
This is the first time I've visitied your site...and glad I have. I do have to say my love life is very frustrating and more so for my wife. When she and I were dating I was able to give her an orgasm most every time we had sex, or so she says. We both decided to stop having sex 3 months prior to our marriage so that our special day without any protection would truely be that. It was that, but 5 years have passed and she hasn't orgasmed since we were engaged! We try the things that worked before and I explore new areas on her body, but I only last long enough to get her close. And that's...
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