May 4, 2013
Long Distance Relationships
Hi! There is a guy I met online about 9,5 months ago. We live in different countries. Since we met we have been talking very often with each-other and for quite long each time. But this as only friends. Nothing more. Lately however I have got confused about my feelings for him. Some people close to me asked me once whether I was in love with him and that is where the "confusion period" started. So I am wondering, can it be just caused by "overthinking"? Can I only think that I might like him as...
May 4, 2013
Long Distance Relationships
Hey how are you? So I go to a military college in VA and my girl goes to school in Boston. We met a year ago and got really close over the summer and got serious. We kept talking when we both went away to school and we grew closer and more serious and fell in love. So I went to visit her one weekend and it didn't go well. It was our first time together in two months and all I wanted to do was spend time with her and just show her my feelings because I wasn't able to because of our distance...
Jan 27, 2013
Long Distance Relationships
Hello Dr. Love
I'm in a pretty tough situation and not sure how to work through it. I love my girlfriend - she is my best friend and when we are together there is nothing we can't handle with a smile. However, after meeting in college as friends (for about a year or two), eventually falling in love, and spending almost two more years living happily together, traveling around the world for grad school.. life has thrown us a curve ball and we had to become long distance for work.
Its been...
Oct 1, 2012
Long Distance Relationships
Dear Dr. Love,
I really need your help in trying to determine whether or not my girlfriend truly loves me or if this is something I should walk away from. I'm in the United States on a temporary work visa (from Canada), I live and work in the United States and might very well end up living here in New York permanently. Anyway, about 6 months ago I met a great girl. We fell in love. Our chemistry is great and we have an amazing time together. I love her company, the conversation is great,...
Oct 1, 2012
Long Distance Relationships
Dr. Love, Hi
This is the first time I ever asked someone besides my mother for advice but
now I feel is like a really great time. So where do I start? I bet you get
that alot. Two years ago I met a guy who was in the Coast Guard we dated
for awhile and later became a couple. We spent almost every day together and
we even got a dog. We went on vacation and always had alot of fun. Throughout
the two years I was with him I always felt apart of me was incomplete, I
assumed it had to do...
Sep 25, 2012
Long Distance Relationships
Hi there,
About a year ago, I met this new girl at work. At first we would just say hi to each other or just short conversations. About four months ago, I noticed she was getting flirty with me. She would joke around with me, punch, slap in a playful way. We started to talk alot more after this. She gave me her number and we would text alot back and forth.
The unfortunate part is she goes to school in another part of the country and she went back about a month ago. We started...
Sep 9, 2012
Long Distance Relationships
Hello, I am writing because I am confused on what to do. I figure you know this already since I am sending this message to a complete stranger in hopes to find a answer to my feelings. This is my fairly tale love story. Recently I was away for 5 weeks of annual training with the military. While away, in a small town I met a women. This women was like no other I have met, she was very warming and open with me. We spent around 3 days a week together. And I'd occasionally swing by her work and...
Aug 7, 2012
Long Distance Relationships
I'm developing a profound love for a woman who is currently not able to
provide for any of my physical needs. She is revealing a number of qualities
through the course of our conversations - kind, caring, compassionate,
considerate - that Is leading me to believe that this is the person I could
spend the rest of my life with. Is it possible to build a sacred bond with
someone while satisfing ones physical needs with another? If so what are my
responsibilities for informed consent for both...
Jul 3, 2012
Long Distance Relationships
Hi Dr. love.This is my first time am using this website and i hope it
works.Am in a long distance relationship with i guy that i love so much for
like 5 months now.However there has been some emotional distance of late.This
is after we became close with a friend whom I had a crush on but we never
used to talk untill recently..we text each other almost all day unlike with
my guy..Somehow i feel like am loosing my guy to this other friend who also
happens to be having a crush on me.Just the...
May 15, 2012
Long Distance Relationships
Hi doctor!!! I got out of a relationship about 2 months ago and I was so shure he is mr Right but it was a long distance relationship and yeah he has a new girl now and he told me a week or so ago he still loves me and don't know if there will ever be a chance for us again...but see I'm in another relationship too at the moment and it has no heart of real feelings the more I try to make it work it doesn't work...I love my ex so much I can't let go please help I'm feeling lost and wanting him...
