Dec 11, 2012
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Dear Dr Love
I am 50 yr old female dating a 53 yr old man for a little over a year. He was married for over 25 years and he and his wife divorced (he did not want the divorce). by his account, toward the end the relationship was volitale (he doesn't speak much about it-- but mostly blames himself) Anyhow, he's been divorced for approx. 6 yrs. He's dated several women and had at least one serious girlfriend in that time. He's a good man and does a lot to help...
Nov 27, 2012
Level of Commitment
Hi,
My issue is that I've never really had a normal sex life because of a deep seeded fear that I will not be able to obtain an erection. It's happened to me on more than one occasion with a new partner. I've read in another one of your advise columns that the hormones produced by fear are incompatable with those of sexual arousal. It makes perfect sense. Every time Im in a situation where sex would be initiated with someone Iam not 100% comfortable with I panic and try to avoid it at all...
Oct 1, 2012
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my boyfriend and I are both 60 yrs old ( he, never married and me, divorced
for 24 years), healthy, youngish, and have a great sexual and intellectual
chemistry. I was celibate for 7 years before I met him, and this
relationship has made me feel like a 20 something in many ways...never
thought I'd find love again (him, too). He pursued me like gangbusters and
told me he loved me first (after about 2 months), and we see each other
about once a week (usually his place), sometimes two...
Sep 25, 2012
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Hi there,
About a year ago, I met this new girl at work. At first we would just say hi to each other or just short conversations. About four months ago, I noticed she was getting flirty with me. She would joke around with me, punch, slap in a playful way. We started to talk alot more after this. She gave me her number and we would text alot back and forth.
The unfortunate part is she goes to school in another part of the country and she went back about a month ago. We started...
Jul 17, 2012
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Met a guy 1.4 yrs ago. Had the usual 4 month chemistry attachment where he chased me until I caught him. Then he blew hot and cold. Goes back to ex-gf periodically. Toxic relationship. When he's with me, he never wants to leave me. When he leaves me, he never comes back. Keeps contact mostly thru emails/FB. Hadn't seen him in 3 mos. but went on date last week where he says that he feels a great connection with me that he doesn't feel with others. That the fact that we are still...
Jul 8, 2012
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Hi my name is Jackie. I dont know where to start. I have been with this guy for about 3 years now. We are like best friends and a couple. I met him a year after he came out of a 8 year relationship. He told me in the beginning he wants to be a buddhist monk but i never believed him. He told me sometimes i must move on and be with someone else as he cant offer the things i want in life as he wants to become a monk. As soon as i try to leave him alone and respect his wishes i find myself back...
Apr 17, 2012
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I've known my Ex for years. Our parents went to school together, and since the first day we met, we immediately connected. Also, he only lives a few houses down from me, which made it easier for both of us. I'm only 16 at the moment, and i know there are people out there that say you can't experience love and heartbreak at such a young age. But honestly, it kills me inside as i sit and think about things every night, and as i'm writing this! We are both more or less the same age, i'm exactly...
Mar 31, 2012
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Dr love i count on your huge experience to help on this situation.I am 30 she 26.i met her in badoo before 2 weeks and after some talking she gave me her skype.she is going to come here in crete in one month to work during season in hotel.we continued talking after that for around 3 hours every day.sometimes with camera.she is flirting with me laughs with my jokes,teasing me and generally seems to like me very much.the problem is that i found out that she has a boyfriend who met last summer...
Jan 1, 2012
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hello!
i'm sorry i can't speak english well but i will try to explain my pain.( Note here: Dr. Turndorf has edited the following letter where needed so that the question is clear to her readers.)
i met my girl two years ago in the time we’ve known each other she had a broken heart and i'm the one who helped her to survive. If she needed anyone I was there for her during this time. After she got passed her bad time i think that she liked me and i started to love her but i waited...
Dec 29, 2011
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I have been with my boyfriend for the past 10 yrs and we are now leaving together. The only problem is he does not trustMutual trust is a shared belief that you can depend on each other to achieve a common purpose.
More comprehensively trust defined as "the willingness of a party (trustor) to be vulnerable to the...(Click for full definition.) me at all. I dont ask him for anything at the end of the month regarding money matters but every month he gives his savings to his sister to put in...
