Conflict Resolution
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Dec 29, 2011
Conflict
Resolution
I have been with my boyfriend for the past 10 yrs and we are now leaving together. The only problem is he does not trustMutual trust is a shared belief that you can depend on each other to achieve a common purpose.
More comprehensively trust defined as "the willingness of a party (trustor) to be vulnerable to the...(Click for full definition.) me at all. I dont ask him for anything at the end of the month regarding money matters but every month he gives his savings to his sister to put in the bank rather than doing it himself and this tends to offend me as his family is aware of his family...
Dec 15, 2011
Conflict
Resolution
i have been with him for 7 months. i'm 19 and he's 23. the relationship has been beyond perfect. however, i have the type of personality where if little things bother me, i hold them in and one day i do something drastic like cutting a person out of my life. my boyfriend wouldn't really make me a priority the past month or two but it wouldn't be bad, it was just little things but i was always afraid to bring it up because i didn't want to ruin the amazing times that we were having. so i let it slide and one day i woke up with complete emotional detachment towards him....
Nov 11, 2011
Conflict
Resolution
Dr. Love,
I will try to make this short and can provide you with many more details if it helps. I have caught my girlfriend in 4 lies but all but one is related to one another and one she said she had forgotten about. The 3 related ones she said she didn't tell me because she didn't want to hurt me. I have a feeling she may be hiding more secrets but wont tell me cause I told if I caught her in another lie I would leave. I've told her numerous times the only thing I ask for is honestyMany people believe that "honesty is the best policy" in intimate relationships. Nothing could be...
Sep 20, 2011
Conflict
Resolution
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. We live together have two kids and one on the way but over the months it has felt like something has changed when we have sex there is no Passion at ALL. I'm 21 and he is 26 he always puts me down instead of making me feel better about things like he used to he doesn't hold me when we sleep together at night I always have to make the first move he lies about the stupidest things he always tell me how unhappy he is and turns around and says he loves me and wants to be with me he says stuff like I'm a whore I'm nothing I ain'...
Aug 14, 2011
Conflict
Resolution
Dr. Love. Here's my story.
Me and my ex of 3 and a half years broke up back in December out of stupidity, ego (on both parts). At first, she begged me back but I was too consumed with anger to accept her. And within weeks I fell into a rebound relationship which lasted for a couple of weeks. Well I did sleep with my rebound and foolishly admitted that to my love (cause I thought honestyMany people believe that "honesty is the best policy" in intimate relationships. Nothing could be further from the truth. Practicing this philosophy by speaking your mind at all costs may cost you...(Click...
Jun 21, 2011
Conflict
Resolution
I have been married for 11 years. My husband is a negative person. He also suffers low self-esteem. He has always been jealous of his friends' success. What worries me lately is that he is jealous of me. He always mentions that he's frustrated with his career and that he doesn't get enough support from me. He is always saying that he helps me plan my life and then things work out for me better than they do for himself. I am working full-time, raising two children, do most of the housework, homework. I financially supported him for more than a year when he was a student. I don't know how...
May 24, 2011
Conflict
Resolution
MY WIFE LANDED A JOB A FEW MONTHS AGO IN WEIGHT LOSS, MASSAGE THERAPY. AVERAGE PAY I SAW WAS 500 TO 700 A WEEK AND A COUPLE HUNDRED IN TIPS. I WAS CLUELESS. I FOUND OUT SHE AVERAGED 2000 A WEEK AND IT WAS A FRONT FOR A SEX
SHOP EVEN THOUGH NO ACTUAL INTERCOURSE WAS DONE. I FOUND MOST OF THIS FROM THE NEWS AND NEWSPAPERS AND THEN SHE BROKE DOWN AND CONFESSED. I FLIPPED OUT.
MY PROBLEM IS I WANT A DIVORCE AND EXPLAINED TO HER I NO LONGER HAVE ANY TRUST, RESPECT AND TOLD HER SHE DESTROYED ME AND I AM NUMB WITH NO FEELING.
SHE SAYS SHE REALY DIDN'T DO ANYTHING...
May 24, 2011
Conflict
Resolution
My girlfriend drinks alcohol even if I am preventing her. Do I have the authority to stop her?
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