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I Love Someone but Does He Love Me?
Sep 29, 2011
Avoidance
Hi my name is Jackie. I dont know where to start. I have been with this guy for about 3 years now. We are like best friends and a couple. I met him a year after he came out of a 8 year relationship. He told me in the beginning he wants to be a buddhist monk but i never believed him. He told me sometimes i must move on and be with someone else as he cant offer the things i want in life as he wants to become a monk. As soon as i try to leave him alone and respect his wishes i find myself back with him. We never fight and we do everything together. We are like almost the perfect couple. We can...
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I Left Her But I Want Her
Jun 21, 2011
Avoidance
To start I am sorry for my syntax I have not got to some school to learn English. My note: I fixed the grammar and syntax where needed to make your letter clearer for my readers. I am from Athens Greece and i am 24 y.o. so i am in a relation for 7 years with a woman that i was her 1st...in recent months i was feeling pressure from her and i wanted to meet some new women so i told her I wanted to break up...its been a month and almost every day i see her  in my sleep and i cannot take her off my mind... so i reached out to her and..in few words she told me some stuff that she did 3...
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Does He Really Love Me?
Jun 13, 2011
Avoidance
I have been in a relationship for 3.5 years. I love him dearly and he also says the same. However he said he will marry me 1 day but show no plans and doesn't want to talk about it. We haven't had any quality times together for a long time. His friends are always around 24/7 on weekends. We both work full time so I don't want to do much after work during weekdays. I just don't understand y can't he tell his friends that he has to spend time with me n tell them to go home. Does hereally love me or is he just saying so?
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He's Loved Her From Afar for Two Years
Jun 3, 2011
Avoidance
There is a female I have wanted to talk to for almost 2 years but my friend refuses to set me up with her. So this past week, I was finally paired up with her in his wedding party as a groomsman and a bridesmaid. I believe our chemistry was fantastic and our friends can see this clearly, however, she has been dating this guy from my understanding for about 3 or 4 months, however, I heard she knew him from high school, supposedly. I met her boyfriend at the wedding and honestly I can tell right away he is no good for her. He sat there the whole time with no emotion or personality from what I...
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My Wife Was Arrested for Prostitution
May 24, 2011
Avoidance
MY WIFE LANDED A JOB A FEW MONTHS AGO IN WEIGHT LOSS, MASSAGE THERAPY. AVERAGE PAY I SAW WAS 500 TO 700 A WEEK AND A COUPLE HUNDRED IN TIPS.  I WAS CLUELESS.  I FOUND OUT SHE AVERAGED 2000 A WEEK AND IT WAS A FRONT FOR A SEX  SHOP EVEN THOUGH NO ACTUAL INTERCOURSE WAS DONE.  I FOUND MOST OF THIS FROM THE NEWS AND NEWSPAPERS AND THEN SHE BROKE DOWN AND CONFESSED. I FLIPPED OUT. MY PROBLEM IS I WANT A DIVORCE AND EXPLAINED TO HER I NO LONGER HAVE ANY TRUST, RESPECT AND TOLD HER SHE DESTROYED ME AND I AM NUMB WITH NO FEELING. SHE SAYS SHE REALY DIDN'T DO ANYTHING...
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Seeking Greener Pastures
May 4, 2011
Avoidance
Imagine a couple in a long term, committed relationship. Imagine one of the parties subscribes to a singles dating site - no public profile is involved, he or she, just  likes to look at what's out there. The 'looker' argues it is just amusement. The other party says it is disrespectful and suggestive that perhaps the 'looker' is seeking greener pastures. What would your advice be?
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Hate This Lying
Jan 12, 2011
Avoidance
Hi, I am 17 years old and have been together with my boyfriend who is quite a bit older, for 6 months now and I am in love with him. He is overseas for a few months and we are moving in together for a job we are both doing this year. I have recently been feeling awful, like I am living a lie as I constantly have to lie to my parents as I know they will not accept this, and all my plans will not happen. I cannot sleep as this has been all I have been thinking about and I don't know what to do. Should I wait until I leave home to tell them and spare their feelings for a while longer. I feel...
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What Does He Want?
Oct 21, 2010
Avoidance
There's is this guy, half Turkish-half German, I met exactly one year ago. Normally I like someone very quick (1 day) by looking at the guy's behavior,  but this one I met was not like that. I started liking him after almost 1 month, I think I fell in love. I asked myself what I liked about this guy. I was able to answer myself, a thing that had never happened with other guys I  liked. I guess it's because I was very shallow. I used to pay a lot of attention on the physical appearance. I can tell that this guy's physical appearance is far away from what I...
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