Apr 29, 2013
Ok Dr. Love, I am so happy with the guy I am with. I see us being together for the rest of my life. Our problem is we argue about a lot. But we get over it real fast. I don't like arguing and fighting then getting all lovey dovey. I don't want to fight or argue anymore. I don't want to ruin what we have. I love him with every once of life in me what do I do to solve my problem. I try ignoring what would make us argue but then it builds up and that isnt good. Please Dr. Love HELP me. I love...
Mar 5, 2013
When my boyfriend and I are discussing something, he can be very contradictory and defensive in his tone and his argument. This intimidates me from voicing my opinion or sharing things about my life. Often when I do he abruptly changes the subject. Often the conversations are only about him. I told him the defensive tone bugs me and why it does. He responded first by saying that all his ex's have said the same thing, and that he would try to change but he is sick of trying and that he...
Nov 20, 2012
I am 41; my wife is 32. We have a 1 1/2 year old daughter. My wife has no interest in having sexual relations. The last time was about 10 months ago. She has thyroid problems and is taking medication for that. We know that could be part of the cause of her lack of libido. She and I get along fine other than this. When I bring up the subject, she does not want to discuss it much. I am very frustrated. Do you have any advice?
Nov 11, 2012
Dear Dr. Love, I'm 43 year-old male who's been looking for a new female companion. It's been 2 year since my last relationship and I feel over that now. I met a woman about a month ago and see here everyday on her terms. I don't get her phone #, she says she lives with here aunt on an estate. I know of another exboyfriend who lives in the same town as this presumed aunt. I pick her up and drop her off each day, at a local spot in town. I feel she lives with this ex friend because I know...
Oct 30, 2012
I am much more interested in sex than my husband. It causes problems in our marriage because I feel he doesn't love me as much because he rejects my advances more often than not. To compensate, I masterbate fairly frequently. We have been married 14 years and have a 4 year old and a 9 month old. I get less sleep by far than he does and yet he still uses the too tired excuse, among others, on a regular basis. If it weren't for the kids and the fact that he is truly a good man, I'd...
Sep 9, 2012
I'm engaged to a 65 year old whose never been married. He states he's always run away when there is the least little bit of drama, thinking, "I don't need this; I can manage just fine on my own." He states that he knows without any doubt that he is absolutely better off in this relationship with me than he is without it, and he is very worried that if he can't change that old habit he will lose me. He even agrees that this knee-jerk response to even very tiny "problems" is irrational,...
Jul 8, 2012
Hi my name is Jackie. I dont know where to start. I have been with this guy for about 3 years now. We are like best friends and a couple. I met him a year after he came out of a 8 year relationship. He told me in the beginning he wants to be a buddhist monk but i never believed him. He told me sometimes i must move on and be with someone else as he cant offer the things i want in life as he wants to become a monk. As soon as i try to leave him alone and respect his wishes i find myself back...
Jun 21, 2011
To start I am sorry for my syntax I have not got to some school to learn English. My note: I fixed the grammar and syntax where needed to make your letter clearer for my readers. I am from Athens Greece and i am 24 y.o. so i am in a relation for 7 years with a woman that i was her 1st...in recent months i was feeling pressure from her and i wanted to meet some new women so i told her I wanted to break up...its been a month and almost every day i see her in my sleep and i cannot take...
Jun 13, 2011
I have been in a relationship for 3.5 years. I love him dearly and he also says the same. However he said he will marry me 1 day but show no plans and doesn't want to talk about it. We haven't had any quality times together for a long time. His friends are always around 24/7 on weekends. We both work full time so I don't want to do much after work during weekdays. I just don't understand y can't he tell his friends that he has to spend time with me n tell them to go home....
Jun 3, 2011
There is a female I have wanted to talk to for almost 2 years but my friend refuses to set me up with her. So this past week, I was finally paired up with her in his wedding party as a groomsman and a bridesmaid. I believe our chemistry was fantastic and our friends can see this clearly, however, she has been dating this guy from my understanding for about 3 or 4 months, however, I heard she knew him from high school, supposedly. I met her boyfriend at the wedding and honestly I can tell...