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He Chickens Whenever I Want Sex
May 13, 2011
Fight Traps
I have been with my boyfriend for a year now but he has become cold towards me since we had a break up about a month ago. Since then he does not want to kiss, touch, hug or make love to me. He says he needs time to get over what happened before. I also know he meets with his ex and that they meet every day while he makes excuses to meet with me. My family doesn't like him so he feels like he has no future with me but I don't see it that way. He says he wants we take things slow between us and we start all over  again like friends. But I can't handle that since I am so...
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I Need Answers Before It's Too Late
Sep 9, 2010
Fight Traps
Dear Dr. Love, It has been 2 years that I've been with my boyfriend. My boyfriend is very understanding despite the fact that I am impatient and moody. He never cheated on me, so I guess I should be thankful for that. My problem is that he always fails to add an extra ingredient to all the special occasions within the range of our relationship. The latest are my Birthday and our 2nd year anniversary. For my birthday, he didn't even show up. I was all alone in my apartment.  During our anniversary, a date couldn't fit in with our busy schedule and we both have lots of...
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End or Not to End
Sep 9, 2010
Fight Traps
I just broke up with my boyfriend. For the past many months we've been like this: One moment we were ok, then the next we are not. He gets upset over trivial things like me waiting for my sister, then he gets angry then breaks up with me. So I would just have to plead with him meet some conditions so that we will be ok again. I feel like I'm being emotionally abused. But this time I was really not in the mood and instead of pleading I okeyed his breaking up with me. Now, after being calm, he texted me saying he loves me. That's all. I still love him too. Should I...
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How Can I Make Sure our Love Lasts Forever?
Sep 3, 2007
Fight Traps
I am deeply in love with my new girlfriend and I want to know what we can do to insure that our love lasts forever.
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We Need to Get Past This
Dec 23, 2002
Fight Traps
Dear Dr. Love, My husband and I have been married for 9 months now. We have going through a lot of adjustments just as all newly wed couples do. However, it seems that we are just not stopping the constant arguing. Of course over the most rediculous things. But it seems to almost always turn into an arguments filled with insults. Now, I have come to the point where I cannot stand to hear these painful insults anymore. These things he says to me, although he says he does not mean them, are not going away. I just keep thinking, does he really think this way of me. It makes me very depressed and...
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Help Me to Not Drive Him Away
Jul 29, 2002
Fight Traps
Dear Dr. Love, my boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years and are very much in love. the problem we have is that i have a tendency to blow up at the wrong times about things that have been bothering me. but the catch is i don't know it was bothering me until i got mad. now when we fight i end the relationship then call him back 1 hour later. he is such a sweet guy and perfect for me. he makes me secure and everything i wasnt befor i met him. please help me not to drive him away. I want to thank you for taking the time to answer my question
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Sweeping Your Problems under the Rug
Apr 15, 2002
Fight Traps
I had a child three months ago by my boyfriend. We have been together for two years. During the pregnancy we argued all the time. I knew it was partly because of my mood swings. Now after I've had the baby we still argue, not as much, but's still a problem. We agreed one of the problems is that we don't solve all our problems, we just try to forget about it. We're trying to make this work but don't know how. HELP!!!
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Very Troubled
Oct 21, 1996
Fight Traps
Dear Doctor Love: My live-in girlfriend and I fight very often of late and it seems to me to be over the least little thing! I admit that I can get very irrated at times but it seems that both of our tolerance levels have hit rock botom. I love her with all my heart but it seems that we are falling apart. I think it is related to the fact that she just will not let go of past problems. Whenever we fight I swear that she has a satellite link up to a computer with all the things I did wrong catalogued. When we begin to argue she slaps up the past to me and says very mean things. What I would...
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