Jul 17, 2012
Met a guy 1.4 yrs ago. Had the usual 4 month chemistry attachment where he chased me until I caught him. Then he blew hot and cold. Goes back to ex-gf periodically. Toxic relationship. When he's with me, he never wants to leave me. When he leaves me, he never comes back. Keeps contact mostly thru emails/FB. Hadn't seen him in 3 mos. but went on date last week where he says that he feels a great connection with me that he doesn't feel with others. That the fact that we are still...
Jun 25, 2012
I am 53 and divorced. I met the most gorgeous man 22 months ago and we had a wonderful time. He is everything I have always wanted: witty, erudite, intelligent, charming, good company and we had a great deal in common. He has 2 young daughters and wanted to keep them out of things, which I understood, I would have done the same had mine been younger. He became my best friend and confidant. 2months ago he emailed me whilst away with his children and said he thought...
May 8, 2012
Dr. Love, I have been dating a guy that I met online for about 3 months now. We hit it off wonderfully and began to build a great friendship immediately. Initially, I told him that I was not interested in giving myself intimantely until I was in an exclusive relationship. After almost two months of only seeing each other but no real discussion of commitment, we slept together. I immediately began to feel uneasiness about what that meant and whether or not we were building towards a...
Mar 23, 2012
hello dr.love i am in desperate need of your advice my now fiance and i have been dating for 5 years now and he decided to leave to the navy and is leaving within a month from now. we have only been engaged for a month now but i feel as if he just did it to hide somthing because since than he has been acting very carless in bed its not the same i dont feel his love he says he got me the ring to prove heis committed but why is he leaving than?...
Aug 10, 2010
Dear Dr. Love, I went out with my ex-boyfriend for over 12 months. I moved into his apartment after 3 months. We fell deeply in love. He is very successful and older than me he is 35 and I'm in my late twenties. We talked about marriage and starting a family. I foolishly believed we would get married and that would be that. I would have fantasies about our beautiful family we would have, etc. Then out of the blue he didn't come home one night and his phone was off. I was...
Oct 1, 2007
During the first weeks of September, I met this guy. He works next to my company and we don't live far from each other. After 2 weeks we became friends but I started to develop love for him and it was so strong. On the 13th of September, I called him and I wanted to tell him but I didn't. Saturday he called me to come to his flat and I did and I discovered that he does love me too. On Sunday we made love with protection. The whole week everything was fine, but on the 23rd he just told me we...
Aug 6, 2007
How can I love a husband who cheated after 24 years?
Mar 26, 2007
I have been a relationship with a man for the last 11 months everything has been real good and I mean real good. All of a sudden he tells me that we need to slow things down and not see each other as much. My family and his spent the holidays together, or birthdays. I think that he is scared of the closeness that we have now. He says that we need to be just friends, I don't know if I can just be friends with him because I'm in love with him, want to be with him as a couple not as his friend. Do...
Feb 19, 2007
I have been with this guy for 1 year yesterday. Throughout this year he's has broken up with me at least 4 times. After every time he breaks up with me we always get back together because I beg him and I say things will change. To give you a little bit about me. . . . I was in a serious relationship 4 years ago with a guy that I knew since I was 16. We dated for 2 1/2 years until I caught him with another girl. Therefore, when I started dated this new guy I was very certain that he would do the...
Nov 15, 2004
A very important question I have been talking to my friend for some time now and I feel like he is leading me on because he's always talking about how he wants to be with me and then when I make that next move he'll say we are rushing things. I just feel like he is leading me on and I really want to be with him. Please tell me what to say to and what to do.