Jan 11, 1999
My wife and I have been married since '95, but have been living together about eight years. We are both 29. We have a 15 month old very well behaved little boy. Our sex life has been a little less than regular (not just since we had the boy) and I am starting to get extremely aggravated. I am a very sexual person, (I think about sex a lot), and I would like to have sex with my wife more than once a month, which is what we are averaging. In fact, I would enjoy about once a day. We have talked...
Nov 2, 1998
Dear Dr. Love, Hello, I am having this little problem with my girl friend. I really love her, but I am not sure she feels the same way. She thinks that i don't love her, and when i tell her i do, she just says,'no you don't.' She is always complaining that i don't act nice, but i really do. Also, she says she wants me to show her tons of effection in public, but then when i try to kiss her, she backs away. She always is telling me about other guys hitting on her, and asks me if i think she...
Oct 12, 1998
Dear Dr. Love, I am having a hard time dealing with this situation. I have read several books and have asked several people on their thoughts and I still can't seem to find an answer. I have been dating a guy for 2 months. We talked on the phone at least twice a week and spent the weekends and at least one week night together during this time. One week ago yesterday, we went out to dinner, he showed me where he grew up and we had a wonderful time. I thought he was being extremely...
Jun 22, 1998
Hello;My name is Derek. I must say that your site is quite impressive-lots of good info, but I could not find anything about the subject I have in question, and that is this. First of all, I must say that I know that I am not gay or bisexual.I have never had a girlfriend like the one I have now. She is a physical therapist and aerobics instructor, and I am an engineer. I am 25, she is 24. Her name is Jessica. We have been together for about 3 years, and in those two years, only have...
Apr 27, 1998
I am a single mother of a beautiful baby boy whom I love very much, and want the best for him. The father was very supportive at first, but this was while I was far away. When I moved back things became very distant between us. He rarely comes to see his son, but is providing money and insurance for him. He does seem to really love his son also. He and I have been pretty close in the past, and he has been the one in the past that has pursued me in this relationship. Now he acts as if he...
Apr 13, 1998
Dear Dr. Love, I pray that you will choose this letter to answe for free. I am having a real problem dealing with my husband's new female co-worker. First of all, my husband of 9 years is not flirtacious, not a filanderer, etc. There is a pretty 27 year old sales manager who recently transferred to the branch he manages and since I've seen her, I have had periods of anxiety over this. I think I have idealized her in my head and fear that she has qualities that I do not possess any longer....
Apr 6, 1998
Dear Dr. Love, I am hoping that you can help me. I have been in a relationship with a guy for several months, and things up to this point have been going very well. Since the start, we see each other frequently, talk every day, etc. We have had our arguments, but nothing really serious. The problem is that a few weeks ago, he got transferred for his job to a city not too far away (reasonable driving distance) for a great promotion, and he claims that this is not a permanent move. I wasn't...
Nov 10, 1997
Dear Dr. Love, I used to go out with this guy 5 years ago, I have been in love with him for about 6 years now. About 6 months ago we started talking and kind of seeing one another however he is engaged and he tells me he really likes me and wants to have sexual relations, and oral sex. He says he is afraid that his fiancee will find out if he does these things. . I am so much in love with him I would do anything for him. . . Please help me!!!!! Hopeless
Sep 22, 1997
Dear Dr. Love, I am 33, married, and have a beautiful son age 1. My very best friend is a gay man. We have the greatest friendship anyone could ever imagine. We go on trips together (the 3 of us, no husband). We go out to dinner several times a week, we act like a married couple. My husband is a very sucessful attorney and is not home much. He does not care for my friend David. He allows me to do what I want with David because he is a family friend and GAY. My relationship with David has always...
Sep 15, 1997
Hi Dr Love, I recently moved to Hawaii from Australia to be with the man that I fell in love with while on vacation here. He came to Australia to see me and for 6 months we were talking daily on the phone. I then took the plunge and moved here. Unfortunately, I found that prior to me coming here he was seeing quite a few women and I don't know if this is continuing. I don't think it is (there's proof that it's not) but I can't stand to see letters and postcards sent to him by these girls. They...