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Abuse (Verbal)

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Relationship Beyond Infidelity
Dec 6, 2011
Abuse (Verbal)
Dear Dr. Jamie, Thank you for providing this interface. I have been seeing a person for seven years and we were to get married in a few months. To my shock my fiance confessed to an affair with a grossly inappropriate person, his boss older by 27 years. He feels very guilty for having betrayed me and for having spoiled the boss' reputation. My fiance has been through a very difficult childhood having lost his father at a young age to drinking. His family provided him with very little love and care. When we met each other, there was a lot of happiness but slowly we started having...
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Does it Sound Like I Should End it our Just Keep Working at it?
Sep 20, 2011
Abuse (Verbal)
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. We live together have two kids and one on the way but over the months it has felt like something has changed when we have sex there is no Passion at ALL. I'm 21 and he is 26 he always puts me down instead of making me feel better about things like he used to he doesn't hold me when we sleep together at night I always have to make the first move he lies about the stupidest things he always tell me how unhappy he is and turns around and says he loves me and wants to be with me he says stuff like I'm a whore I'm nothing I ain'...
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What should i do? move on or try to get him.. :(
Jun 30, 2011
Abuse (Verbal)
Everything was goin great.. me and this guy were talkin for like a month..he took me out on dates like to eat or movies or games.. it was awesome :) i really thought he was goin to ask me out sooner or later.. then... out of nowhere he told me i lied to him.. he said a girl told him that i wasnt a virgin.. :( he believed her. Im still one. I told him since the beginnin.. he didnt believe in me and he even told me to my face :/ it hurt me soo much that i decided not to talk to him again. i know what i am and it jus hurts my heart that he didnt believe me. We were really happy talkin but that...
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My Wife Was Arrested for Prostitution
May 24, 2011
Abuse (Verbal)
MY WIFE LANDED A JOB A FEW MONTHS AGO IN WEIGHT LOSS, MASSAGE THERAPY. AVERAGE PAY I SAW WAS 500 TO 700 A WEEK AND A COUPLE HUNDRED IN TIPS.  I WAS CLUELESS.  I FOUND OUT SHE AVERAGED 2000 A WEEK AND IT WAS A FRONT FOR A SEX  SHOP EVEN THOUGH NO ACTUAL INTERCOURSE WAS DONE.  I FOUND MOST OF THIS FROM THE NEWS AND NEWSPAPERS AND THEN SHE BROKE DOWN AND CONFESSED. I FLIPPED OUT. MY PROBLEM IS I WANT A DIVORCE AND EXPLAINED TO HER I NO LONGER HAVE ANY TRUST, RESPECT AND TOLD HER SHE DESTROYED ME AND I AM NUMB WITH NO FEELING. SHE SAYS SHE REALY DIDN'T DO ANYTHING...
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He Chickens Whenever I Want Sex
May 13, 2011
Abuse (Verbal)
I have been with my boyfriend for a year now but he has become cold towards me since we had a break up about a month ago. Since then he does not want to kiss, touch, hug or make love to me. He says he needs time to get over what happened before. I also know he meets with his ex and that they meet every day while he makes excuses to meet with me. My family doesn't like him so he feels like he has no future with me but I don't see it that way. He says he wants we take things slow between us and we start all over  again like friends. But I can't handle that since I am so...
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Jekyl and Hyde
Nov 5, 2010
Abuse (Verbal)
I have been through a very mentally and physically abusive relationship. He said he loved me, asked me to marry him and then he, sweet kind loving man, changed to Dr. Jeckle and Mr. Hyde.  He was scary; he had such a bad temper and would have road rage every time we went somewhere in the car, get out and fight with people calling them all kinds of names.  I would leave his place, then feel bad and call him and he would never answer, so I went to his house he wouldn't answer the dog so I got on my hands and knees to talk to him through the doggie door as I was talking he called...
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He Yells Rather Than Talks
Aug 25, 2010
Abuse (Verbal)
My fiance and I are having difficulty with communication.  I'll try and talk to him about something simple and he starts to yell to get his point across. He's Italian, and his family is very loud as well. I feel like he is this way because it's what he's grown up with and sees nothing wrong with it.  My family is the opposite. We sit down and talk about an issue to try to resolve it.  I'm very sensitive and will cry (mostly out of frustration) when he starts to raise his voice.  Once he's at that point, I can't calm him down and it seems like...
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Do I Live in a Fantasy World?
Aug 4, 2010
Abuse (Verbal)
There are a lot of small questions within this larger question. I will begin with his trip. He went on a trip with some friends, and these guys were pressuring him to go to a strip club, get a special massage, whatever. He did not go however, but if he had that isn't the problem, those things are done often by many guys. There were also girls all around the hotel, apparently asking him to come "party" and he said no. The next day however, he said to me, "these girls are the hottest ever. I am really tempted. You are so lucky". Thing being, I am glad he didn...
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