Apr 29, 2013
Dear Doctor Love: My live-in girlfriend and I fight very often of late and it seems to me to be over the least little thing! I admit that I can get very irritated at times but it seems that both of our tolerance levels have hit rock botom. I love her with all my heart but it seems that we are falling apart. I think it is related to the fact that she just will not let go of past problems. Whenever we fight I swear that she has a satellite link up to a computer with all the things I did wrong...
Apr 9, 2013
I am a 20 year old girl, an i want to tell you about my guy best friend.He is a great guy.Or maybe i should say he WAS a great guy. Ever since he met his girlfriend, he has changed completely.Being with her, he has become really egoistic, and he has joined her friend circle who like to spend a lot of money.We had a stupid fight 3 months back.I kept aside my ego and i messaged him.But he did not reply.He still won't talk to me.I have been his best friend for 3 years, and still he is willing to...
Jan 27, 2013
I had sent you a message on your Facebook page awhile back, and you said to contact you via this method. I am so lost, my marriage has completely deteriorated. So much so filing the divorceDivorce is a legal dissolution of the marriage bond. Many couples divorce themselves from each other on an emotional level long before a legal divorce is sought. As I say in my book, Till Death Do Us...(Click for full definition.) papers is almost the only thing left to do. :( The very first time...
Jun 10, 2012
I am female and 21. My mother has paranoid schizophrenia and my father is an addicted gambler which has brought a lot of grief and problems to the family. I am the eldest of my siblings, so it is only natural for me to take the leading role of the family as both my parents were unable to. Recently I parted with my 3.5 year long term relationship, 'Charley'. I never wanted to stay in the relationship and wanted out after the first few months but he was controllingExamples of controlling behavior...
Mar 24, 2012
Hi, Dr. Love I'm 16 and he's 18. He lives in Canada and I live in Boston. We met on a cruise and we've been dating for over a year. My boyfriend calls me names constantly. Sometimes, he says it as a joke at first, and when I tell him "I won't tolerate you disrespecting me." and I hang up the skype call and ignore a few of the other ones, (We're long distance) and then I finally answer after several calls, he always calls me dumb and a dumbass for not answering the calls and that he was joking...
Dec 6, 2011
Dear Dr. Jamie, Thank you for providing this interface. I have been seeing a person for seven years and we were to get married in a few months. To my shock my fiance confessed to an affair with a grossly inappropriate person, his boss older by 27 years. He feels very guilty for having betrayed me and for having spoiled the boss' reputation. My fiance has been through a very difficult childhood having lost his father at a young age to drinking. His family provided him with very little...
Sep 20, 2011
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. We live together have two kids and one on the way but over the months it has felt like something has changed when we have sex there is no Passion at ALL. I'm 21 and he is 26 he always puts me down instead of making me feel better about things like he used to he doesn't hold me when we sleep together at night I always have to make the first move he lies about the stupidest things he always tell me how unhappy he is and turns around and...
Jun 30, 2011
Everything was goin great.. me and this guy were talkin for like a month..he took me out on dates like to eat or movies or games.. it was awesome :) i really thought he was goin to ask me out sooner or later.. then... out of nowhere he told me i lied to him.. he said a girl told him that i wasnt a virgin.. :( he believed her. Im still one. I told him since the beginnin.. he didnt believe in me and he even told me to my face :/ it hurt me soo much that i decided not to talk to him again. i...
May 24, 2011
MY WIFE LANDED A JOB A FEW MONTHS AGO IN WEIGHT LOSS, MASSAGE THERAPY. AVERAGE PAY I SAW WAS 500 TO 700 A WEEK AND A COUPLE HUNDRED IN TIPS. I WAS CLUELESS. I FOUND OUT SHE AVERAGED 2000 A WEEK AND IT WAS A FRONT FOR A SEX SHOP EVEN THOUGH NO ACTUAL INTERCOURSE WAS DONE. I FOUND MOST OF THIS FROM THE NEWS AND NEWSPAPERS AND THEN SHE BROKE DOWN AND CONFESSED. I FLIPPED OUT. MY PROBLEM IS I WANT A DIVORCE AND EXPLAINED TO HER I NO LONGER HAVE ANY TRUST, RESPECT AND...
May 13, 2011
I have been with my boyfriend for a year now but he has become cold towards me since we had a break up about a month ago. Since then he does not want to kiss, touch, hug or make love to me. He says he needs time to get over what happened before. I also know he meets with his ex and that they meet every day while he makes excuses to meet with me. My family doesn't like him so he feels like he has no future with me but I don't see it that way. He says he wants we take things slow between us and...