Jul 23, 2012
I have been dating a guy for over a year now and I thought we had an ok relationship until I saw my ex boyfriend again (who I dated for 3 years). I started rethinking my decisions about dating at that point. Then I began talking innocently to another guy that was there and I am completely in lust with him right now and I don't know what I should do. I haven't acted upon any of these urges but I don't know how long that will hold out. I don't know whether to give up this current relationship or...
Jul 3, 2012
Hi Dr. love.This is my first time am using this website and i hope it works.Am in a long distance relationship with i guy that i love so much for like 5 months now.However there has been some emotional distance of late.This is after we became close with a friend whom I had a crush on but we never used to talk untill recently..we text each other almost all day unlike with my guy..Somehow i feel like am loosing my guy to this other friend who also happens to be having a crush on me.Just the...
May 1, 2012
I have a boyfriend who I love dearly. We've been together 3 years, live together, I even moved countries to be with him. He's kind, smart, easy to get on with and everything I thought I wanted in a man. Then there is Nathan. This man is my kryptonite. We've been friends a long time, very very flirty friends. We've been openly attracted to each other since we met, but always seem to be in other relationships or not looking for one when we meet up. We both love dancing, we can talk for hours...
Apr 17, 2012
I've known my Ex for years. Our parents went to school together, and since the first day we met, we immediately connected. Also, he only lives a few houses down from me, which made it easier for both of us. I'm only 16 at the moment, and i know there are people out there that say you can't experience love and heartbreak at such a young age. But honestly, it kills me inside as i sit and think about things every night, and as i'm writing this! We are both more or less the same age, i'm exactly...
Mar 24, 2012
Hi, Dr. Love I'm 16 and he's 18. He lives in Canada and I live in Boston. We met on a cruise and we've been dating for over a year. My boyfriend calls me names constantly. Sometimes, he says it as a joke at first, and when I tell him "I won't tolerate you disrespecting me." and I hang up the skype call and ignore a few of the other ones, (We're long distance) and then I finally answer after several calls, he always calls me dumb and a dumbass for not answering the calls and that he was joking...
Mar 23, 2012
hello dr.love i am in desperate need of your advice my now fiance and i have been dating for 5 years now and he decided to leave to the navy and is leaving within a month from now. we have only been engaged for a month now but i feel as if he just did it to hide somthing because since than he has been acting very carless in bed its not the same i dont feel his love he says he got me the ring to prove heis committed but why is he leaving than?...
Feb 21, 2012
My boyfriend and I are both in college and have been together for about 6 months now. Two years previous to this, we dated in high school for 8 months. Just recently, he found out that I cheated on him in that past relationship. He has since broken up with me and called me a compulsive liar for not telling him. I did lie about it, but I knew he would end things. I wasn't in love with him the first time we dated and I have grown and matured during the time we were apart but I am afraid...
Nov 11, 2011
I am 53 and have been with a man 23 years. We are both health care professionals. We have 3 young children. He is a very charming prominent doctor and he has, to say the least...been living a double life. I realize he is a sociopath and I was wondering if you have ever had success with people like him and what does it take. Do they ever see themselves as having this problem? I think he has been like this since late childhood. Is therapy long term for these people? Did you ever see them get...
Nov 11, 2011
Dear Dr. Love, I’m a 47 year old gay man (still in the closet). I work with a 50 year old married man who I think is into me, but doesn’t know how to express himself. We’ve been working together for almost 8 years in a small warehouse environment. Over the years we have become quite close. He has confided in me about his finances sometimes and we go out to lunch often. We always have a few beers and I get the feeling he wants to know if I’m into him. Its very akward as I...
Sep 20, 2011
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. We live together have two kids and one on the way but over the months it has felt like something has changed when we have sex there is no Passion at ALL. I'm 21 and he is 26 he always puts me down instead of making me feel better about things like he used to he doesn't hold me when we sleep together at night I always have to make the first move he lies about the stupidest things he always tell me how unhappy he is and turns around and...