Dec 11, 2006
Hello, After 27 years of marriage I have realized that my wife has been having sex with others, at times over the years. . . . She and I had a little too much to drink one night and she spilled out the info. . . . It was quite explicit and believable. . . . She even mentioned a name of someone I have been suspicious of in the past. . . Next day, however she said she blacked out and didn't remember saying it. . . but the facts are still there, which she denies. . . Even though facts seem to...
May 1, 2006
Dear Dr. Love, I am hoping that you can help me. I have been in a relationship with a guy for several months, and things up to this point have been going very well. Since the start, we see each other frequently, talk every day, etc. We have had our arguments, but nothing really serious. The problem is that a few weeks ago, he got transferred for his job to a city not too far away (reasonable driving distance) for a great promotion, and he claims that this is not a permanent move. I...
Oct 24, 2005
Hi me and my boyfriend recently broke up because I caught him cheating on me! Now he is apologizing and I am sure when I forgive him that he will assume that I will go out with him again! So should I accept his apology? Also should I go out with a guy that I've had my eyes on ever since we broke up? Should I be the one to ask the guy out? Please reply as soon as possible! My heart is broken and I don't know what to do! Thank you and have a great day.
Aug 15, 2005
My wife and I have been married for 30 years. We are now separated and she is trying to find herself. She claims she doesn't know what she wants. She's afraid she may ruin everything. For many of our years, I haven't been there for her emotionally. She claims to still love me but not as husband or lover. She had an affair about 3 years ago and she doesn't seam to want to repair the damage. I don't know what else to do. I don't trust her and I think she is hiding something. My question...
May 2, 2005
Hi Dr. Love, I love your responses to the columns and I wish there were more persons like you who would do this type of job as good as you do.don't know where to start since this is really hard for me. Let me start from the beginning. My boyfriend and I had been together for 2 1/2 years of dating when he broke up with me in 2000. I was hurt because he was my first and only guy whom I had ever had sexual relations with. He didn't have a good reason for the break up. We just had an argument as...
Aug 30, 2004
i love my boyfriend very much but when he starts to pull away i always accuse him of cheating. i know he wouldn't do this. this last time i accused him he said he was done, he wasn't dealing with the bull s**t anymore. i know he still loves me, what should i do to try and get him to see this. we've been together 2 years.
May 24, 2004
Dear Dr. Love, I hope I can speak to you and get some great advice as I have read on your columns. I am going through a stage in my life where I need help. My finance and had been together 5 1/2 years. He proposed 7 months ago. We were getting married and had planned a big wedding reception. One day before my wedding day I received a phone call from another woman. I found out he had been sleeping with another woman and that woman is now expecting a child from him. He confessed the truth...
Jan 19, 2004
I have a great concern for my wife. She has Bipolar and now it is worse than ever. Well I will start out like this she was diagnosed 6 years ago. And she quit taking her meds two months later. We have been married for 3 yrs now and have two children. She finally came to me with her problem 3 months ago. Because i was going to leave her from the mood swings she had. after she told me she had Bipolar I decided to stay with her and help her though it because i Love her very much. So she went to...
Jan 5, 2004
My wife is in love with me but she is falling for a man at work. She is confused and does not know how it happened. We have 3 kids at home and she says she will try realy hard to make it work. Now my question is what can I do to get her to love me like she used to. I have loved this woman since we were teenagers and my love for her is so strong. Hope you can help us.
Sep 29, 2003
Dear Dr. Love, I love a married man very much (I'm mid-40's, he's 50). It was 7 months into our relationship before I found out he was married. He tells me now that he couldn't tell me for fear I'd break up. I feel the whole world is my oyster when we're together: he has introduced me and my son to so many interesting and fun things (camping, sailing etc). We talk everyday on the phone for hours. I enjoy his company, our sex life, our conversations. He's truly the love of my life! However, when...