Aug 5, 2002
Dr, We have been married for 15 years. We have three kids 13, 11, and 9. For the last couple of months my wife has lost all interest in being a family. She just wants to have her freedom to do what she want's (ie) go out every night to the local club and drink or go bar hopping with friends. My concern is that all of her friends are single/divorced/getting divorced/ or screwing around. Numerous times I've noticed many guys hitting on here. Even so caled friends. She has had an intamite affair...
Jul 8, 2002
I just found out that my husband slept with another woman during an affair which lasted several months. He is now begging for my forgiveness and is asking for a second chance. We have two young children. How do I ever trust him or have an sort of an intimate relationship with him again? I'm not sure where or how to begin. Thanks for your input.
Jun 24, 2002
I am a married woman, who has been married before. I married a man who I am deeply in-love with. However, I have doubted him and I have accused him of other women throughout the whole relationship. I was clearly wrong and now he wants a divorce because of my accusations. I have hurt him deeply, but I saw the light too late. How do I let him know that I am sorry and that I will never doubt him again. How can I show him that he can trust me. He lives in Jamaica and I live in the US. Please help...
Apr 29, 2002
Ok here it goes. This is really important to me please please please respond. My boyfriend and I haven't had sex in over three months because my bf had a outbreak of warts. He keeps getting them burnt off but they keep coming back. He doesn't want to even make out any more. This morning when I woke up I put my arm around him and his crotch area was covered in cum (wet dream I'm geussing). Does this mean that he is dreaming about cheating on me with someone else? I'm really worried I love...
Apr 22, 2002
dear dr. love, my boyfriend and i have been together off and on for the last 4 years. once again we are giving it another shot and i really feel that it is going to be forever this time, except for this one little problem, he has a 'friend' that i am not willing to accept. it is a female and they only talk on occassion, but i don't know her or even have a clue what she looks like, he expects me to not be jealous. he says i can't meet her because she does not like me due to the things i have...
Feb 18, 2002
Dear Dr Love, I've been having a wonderful relationship with the man I thought who was my soulmate and the love of my life. Until recently I found from his phone bill that he has been calling his ex a lot. When I confronted him, he explained that he has a lot of unresolved problems with her and that they were merely talking as friends. A few days later, his ex called me up to say that she and my bf has been seeing each other and being intimate again behind my back and told me not to trust my...
Feb 4, 2002
Dear Dr. Love, I have been dating someone 700 km away from me for the last year. He has been alone for 10 years and I have regularly dated. I chose to tell him about my past in detail as he requested. In the past I had once cheated on someone once, and I am aware of why I did it - a type of revenge. Anyway back to this relationship, recently our relationship has come close to ending. For many months now he has been very opinionated about some of my pastimes, example: going to restaurants,...
Jan 28, 2002
my ex-girlfriend and i recently went for a drink together which was meant only to be a friendly drink to catch up on things. However, the night went very well and we really clicked, the conversation flowed, we laughed, we joked and both got a little drunk. The problem is that old feelings i still have for her have now surfaced and i find myself in a state of love again (she was my first love as i was hers). i now want to get back together with her but there is a further problem. her friends...
Jan 28, 2002
My wife and I are in our early 30's and have been married for almost 7 years. We lived together for a year prior to marriage. In the early years we had a stormy relationship, in part because of a short temper on my side but also because of an emotional affair between my wife and another man which went on for about 9 months. The connection between the two emerged within 2 weeks of marriage and ended only 9 months later when I finally caught them on the phone in my house. The relationship had not...
Jan 21, 2002
My wife and I have not been getting along for a few months now. She says she hates me because I did not pay enough attention to her in the beginning of our marriage, three years ago. I found an e-mail from a guy that goes to her college. It wasn't sexual, but I asked her why she was hiding this from me and she said he wanted to have sex with her. After three tries of trying to get the truth out of her she states they talked on the phone and e-mailed each other a few times and that 's it. She...