Jan 15, 2002
I have had a very LOW sex drive and not real open to New things. This led to my husband cheating, now all is good. My sex drive has become MUCH BETTER. I guess age helped (29) now I want to tell him all the things i think about but that doesn't mean I would actully do them. HE WOULD. I'm afraid he will cheat again if I don't tell or push me into things I'm not ready for in action. HELP
Oct 29, 2001
My wife and I are ready to kill each other. I have abused her, rejected her, made her feel unsure of my committment. She has continually forgiven me and now she has drawn the line in the sand. She feels 100% of the changing has to come from me and that I am not entitled to be listened to or given any consideration as to what'I' feel, what'I' need, or what'I' think. I understand why she has taken such an extreme position, however, I do not know how to deal with this and it has alienated me from...
Oct 8, 2001
Dear Dr. Love, I'm a 20 year old college student. I was in a 2 year relationship with a girl I was madly in love with. She was my first love and the first and only person I have made love to. We were very serious in are relationship and talked about marriage and spending are lives together. It even got to the point where we would talk about what kind of dog's we wanted. She was planning on going to UCSD in San Diego and getting her degree in law. So I decided to move down here, that way we...
Sep 24, 2001
My first marriage ended in a divorce with my first husband leaving me for another woman. I have since remarried, however, I still have the fear that he will leave me too. He has developed a friendship with a woman from work, which for me is deja vous. This is how the affair of my first husband happend. I have talked to my current husband about my first husband and all my fears. His reaction and response is that he loves me and I should just get over it. He says I'm driving him crazy with me...
Sep 10, 2001
Dear Dr. Love, My husband 's friend was engaged to a woman and the four of us would go out every weekend together. We all became really close friends. Unfortunately, my husband discovered that his friend was cheating on his fiancÃ©e and both of us were stuck with what to do. My husband finally confronted his friend and asked him if he was still going to go through with the wedding. He said he didn't know. I felt awful because I had grown quite close to both of them. I really like his fiancÃ©e,...
Sep 3, 2001
I just found out about your website. I believe that this is great. . I also realize that I need help. Im going to get married next month to the woman of my dreams, my problem is that I suffer from jealousy, I am not a violent person, so when I get like this I pile up all this negative feelings that I let out in private. . . I have lost girlfriends for this, and I want to have a healthy marriage, I admit that most of the time after my 'attacks' I realize that it was all in my head and relax, but...
Aug 27, 2001
Dr. Love Please help! I am in a relationship with a man for 5 years and he's asked me to marry him. That's not the problem. . . I am starting to question his sexuality. . . there is NO foreplay when we make love. . . No Oral sex No Kissing. . . he said he didn't want the juices to get in his mouth from kissing or oral sex. . . so I told him I am more turned on from getting my neck and back kissed, then he said he would do it but he want do it because I just need to shut up about it and he can...
Aug 20, 2001
i used to be a part time musician-i made some mistakes ie:drugs, cheating) -my wife has been with me all this time (18 yrs)the problem is i have a burning desire to perform. i am miserable without this outlet. i have an opportunity to perform at a local spot that has been a lifelong dream. my wife demands that i say no. what do i do?? it's tearing our marriage apart. i know i cant be happy without playing music, yet i cant get her to trust me. (note: she has always been a very possessive and...
Jun 25, 2001
Dear Dr. Love, I think that I may just be paranoid. I keep thinking that my live in boyfriend is seeing someone when I'm at work. I haven't a real reason to think the thoughts that I do. The only thing I know is that we have had two phone calls from a mystery person. This person sounded exactly the same the 2 different times I had talked with them. The first call was supposedly some type of creditor. The second was a wrong number. These calls were at times when I was at home and should have...
Jun 18, 2001
I am a 37 year old man who has never been married. I have, however, been in a relationship with a 33 year old woman for almost 12 years. We are engaged (for the second time) and are to be married at the end of June!!!! We were engaged to be married in 1998 also but I called it off 2 weeks before the wedding (talk about pressure!!). She is generally a very kind person to me and I am attracted to her physically for the most part. There have been things I've wished were different about her (more...