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Lack of Closure

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I'm Confused and I Don't Know What to Do
Jan 3, 2012
Lack of Closure
I hope and pray that my testimony will be put into consideration and get the opportunity to be answered. Coz right now I've lost the lamps of my   judgement! I've had a boyfriend who's 1 year older than me....its been a distance relationship of which somehow I've managed to survive for like two   years, I dealt with a guy that would seem and admit to love you but hardly show it. He could hardly txt me or call me claiming to be busy and naturally   hard on communication, We agreed not to have sex till marriage but unfortunately I found condoms on...
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I Love Her but I Have a Girlfriend??...What Will I Do??
Aug 14, 2011
Lack of Closure
I loved this woman since the first time I saw her there's a spark in our eyes. I can't describe the feeling the intensity, it feels like it sends me to clouds. I want to be with her to talk to her and I think about her most of the time. She's the most beautiful girl for me. She is sweet smart and nice, and I know she loves me too. It's painted on her face. We've loved each other for many months. I don't have feelings of lust for her but I feel happy when I see her. I　just cant stop myself from showing my true feelings, it's inevitable.  The problem is I do...
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Will I Ever Find Someone as Perfect as Her?
Jul 9, 2011
Lack of Closure
Dear Dr. Love, It's been over half a year and I still can't get over my ex girlfriend. I've done everything every site has told me to do to get over her, yet I still find it impossible. I've broken off all communication with her, thrown away anything and everything that reminds me of her, told myself I don't need her, and everything else the internet has instructed me to do. I can't get over her still. Since it's literally impossible to get over her, I wonder at times: Is it fate? Is she my true love? At other times I wonder: Is it because I'm worried?...
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Love Issue
Nov 5, 2010
Lack of Closure
I need good advice. So 2.5 years ago I met a girl on the Internet and we fell in love after a half-year. We wrote a lot of letters and such but after 8-9 months we both agreed it would be better that we weren't in a relationship anymore, cause she couldn't handle the fact that I was living in Belgium and she in Poland. We would meet person during the summer but she couldn't handle waiting so long and I had also many troubles with it. We couldn't meet more often cause she was 17 and her parents didn't approve and I hadn't the money to take a plane.  Anyway...
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A Big Dilemma
Oct 13, 2010
Lack of Closure
Hi Dr. Love, I really need your help. My boyfriend of 2 years and 6 months left me and it's been 1 month now that we are not together anymore but I miss him so much. What happened is that I lost my job about 3 months ago and since that day we always argued and he was not patient with me at all and I could not even talk with him and tell him how I feel cause he would never listen or help me at all. Suddenly one day he just came home and told me that he didn't have any more feelings for me and that he doesn't want to be with me anymore. I was in shock and I cried...
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A Friend Who Judges Me
Apr 18, 2005
Lack of Closure
Dearest Dr. Love, I truly hope that you are well and happy. You deserve it. You touch so many with your advice and your kind words. Thank you kindly. I would be grateful if you could please help me. . . I feel very confused, hurt and betrayed. I have been friends with a young man ever since I was 15 years old (I am now 24) and he is someone I truly care about, like a brother. I thought I could confide in him and that he would support me and try to understand whatever decisions I make. Unfortunately, I was wrong. . . I told him that I have been in a relationship with a married man for about...
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Friend or Girlfriend
Mar 14, 2005
Lack of Closure
Ok, I'm 16 and a guy. I'm in love with my best friend (she's a girl). I love her so much. I think about her everyday. We wanted to date a few years ago but she is best friends with my sister too. We didn't want to hurt my sis, so we never dated. A few years later, I'm still in love with her. I go to a small school, so there is no girl to 'get my mind off of her. ' I love her. She has talked to and dated a few other guys and I'm always jealous. I want to be friends but I don't know if I can. I love her but she just wants to be friends now. I don't know if I can just be friends...
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You Still Have Strong Feelings for Your Ex.
Oct 4, 2004
Lack of Closure
Me and my ex split up because he already had 2 kids, he had full custody of them since they were 1yr & 2yrs old and when I met him, the kids were 6 & 7, He did not want any more. We were together 3 years. but he still did not want any more kids. So I walked out, because I knew that I wanted to have children one day. 3 years later, I met and married this man, but I did not love him like I loved my ex. but, I knew that I would never be with my ex-. , because he never wanted anymore kids. So I got married, knowing how I still felt. I love my husband very much, but I do not...
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