Apr 10, 2012
hello i want you to help me .... i want to tell you all my story with my love.... it was before one year , i met my girlfriend on facebook ... we loved each other from the bottom of our heart . i am not going to lie there were alot of problems because she is an American and i am Arabic . two months ago she took me off from her friends list on facebook i was suprised why she did that . i dont know she changed a lot . we dont talk like before . during the year we spent together we...
Jan 3, 2012
I hope and pray that my testimony will be put into consideration and get the opportunity to be answered. Coz right now I've lost the lamps of my judgement! I've had a boyfriend who's 1 year older than me....its been a distance relationship of which somehow I've managed to survive for like two years, I dealt with a guy that would seem and admit to love you but hardly show it. He could hardly txt me or call me claiming to be busy and naturally ...
Jan 1, 2012
hello! i'm sorry i can't speak english well but i will try to explain my pain.( Note here: Dr. Turndorf has edited the following letter where needed so that the question is clear to her readers.) i met my girl two years ago in the time we’ve known each other she had a broken heart and i'm the one who helped her to survive. If she needed anyone I was there for her during this time. After she got passed her bad time i think that she liked me and i started to love her but i waited...
Dec 16, 2011
i have been with him for 7 months. i'm 19 and he's 23. the relationship has been beyond perfect. however, i have the type of personality where if little things bother me, i hold them in and one day i do something drastic like cutting a person out of my life. my boyfriend wouldn't really make me a priority the past month or two but it wouldn't be bad, it was just little things but i was always afraid to bring it up because i didn't want to ruin the amazing times that we were...
May 24, 2011
I have a long and complex situation. I was in a 2 year relationship with a man who I am still in love with but am so unsure of what to do. Our relationship was amazing at times and rocky at other times. Let me tell you a little about his past, maybe this will help to paint a better picture because I have a feeling the way our relationship was and how it ended has a lot to do with his upbringing. He was told that his birth mom abandoned him, and he lived with his alcoholic father...
Oct 1, 2010
Dear Dr. Love, A few years ago I met a guy and we made friends. We were friends for about 2 months and then I moved away. I knew he liked me then, but I didn't return his affections. About 3 months ago he contacted me again, and we've had lots of contact since. We've been talking on the phone, for hours, and it's been really nice. But now I'm afraid. I don't really let people in that easily, and I haven't told him that I see a psychiatrist or that I...
Oct 1, 2010
I am a shy person and don't have many friends. I have one friend who is closest to me. We used to spend lots of time together and also would spend sometime with his friends. Lately, he doesn't seem to want to spend time alone with me. He just wants to meet when there are other friends with us. We kind of seem like strangers when there are other people. Many times he ignores me when there's more people. Now we also seem like strangers when we are alone coz we almost don't...
Sep 9, 2010
I just broke up with my boyfriend. For the past many months we've been like this: One moment we were ok, then the next we are not. He gets upset over trivial things like me waiting for my sister, then he gets angry then breaks up with me. So I would just have to plead with him meet some conditions so that we will be ok again. I feel like I'm being emotionally abused. But this time I was really not in the mood and instead of pleading I okeyed his breaking up with me. Now,...
Jul 13, 2010
There are so many problems I am not even sure where I should start. First off I feel as if I am constantly giving in the relationship, whereas I feel as if she is unwilling to give even a small fraction of what I give. For example, she always wants me to pick her up, even if she is the one asking me to come over, or the one inviting me to do something, and when I don't want to drive she gets upset about it and doesn't want to do whatever activity was proposed before...
Jun 18, 2007
I broke a promise to my gf and she took it very seriously. She's a very private person usually and doesn't let people know what's wrong or anything. So the next day she basically ignores me and has a fit that I lied to her. That went on for 3 days her being really mad about that. She's over it now, but it took a lot out of her. I really didn't mean to and it was a spur of the moment decision. Now we both want to be close again because we're both afraid were gonna lose what we've made together....