May 12, 2013
Sexual Dysfunction
Dear Dr Love,
I am about to get married and I found out today the man I am marrying has been using Viagra since we met. I'm not quiet sure how to feel about this.
We havent had a lot of 'physical time' together as we live in different countries (even though we have known each other for more than 2 years). I will be with him in a couple of weeks and even though he said it has nothing to do with how much he desires me it has affected my ego.
I found out from a script, and he told me that we...
Apr 9, 2013
Sexual Dysfunction
I am 36 years old & happily married. Happily - for 9 years (the trustMutual trust is a shared belief that you can depend on each other to achieve a common purpose.
More comprehensively trust defined as "the willingness of a party (trustor) to be vulnerable to the...(Click for full definition.) & lust is all there) and I LOVE having sex with my husband. Yet I have never had an orgasm, by myself or with a partner. Believe me, I have tried everything. I have...
Feb 5, 2013
Sexual Dysfunction
Does having sex everyday make it harder for a women to orgasm everyday
through over stimulation? As my girlfriend struggles to reach orgasm after
she has had one the day before???
Feb 5, 2013
Sexual Dysfunction
Dr. Turndorf,
I'm in a serious pickle. I'm a 40 year old man who has spent the last 10 years interested in finding the best looking women to have the dirtiest and craziest sex with. I tend to fall completely in love with these women, losing myself to the extreme lust and excitement of pushing the boundaries of normal sex into what can only be described as S&M or fetishism. I have cheated and lied and I am simply not satisfied with vanilla sex or lovemaking. I have been with several...
Jan 15, 2013
Sexual Dysfunction
Hello Doctor,
My boyfriend and I have been together for some time now, before we had made it official and actually settled down he would always preform oral sex on me, constantly for up to 40 minutes straight, he would even ask if he could give me head, even after we settled down he did it regularly, he loved it. Now it's been almost 4 months since the rejection began, it started with me asking him to go down on me because I would notice he would'nt do it on his own, so I began...
Dec 11, 2012
Sexual Dysfunction
Dear Dr Love
I am 50 yr old female dating a 53 yr old man for a little over a year. He was married for over 25 years and he and his wife divorced (he did not want the divorce). by his account, toward the end the relationship was volitale (he doesn't speak much about it-- but mostly blames himself) Anyhow, he's been divorced for approx. 6 yrs. He's dated several women and had at least one serious girlfriend in that time. He's a good man and does a lot to help...
Dec 2, 2012
Sexual Dysfunction
I am a 41 yo Caucasian male with a question: I have no problem getting aroused but I find it hard to reach orgasm. This applies to intercourse or masturbation. This is not always the case and restraining from any sexual release for several days may speed things up, but not always.
I have taken different antidepressants in the past and the problem was intensified. I have been off antidepressants for about 6 months. Also, after several days without sex, how many times would a normal male be...
Dec 2, 2012
Sexual Dysfunction
I am a 30 year old male, and I have had a problem with premature ejaculation all of my sexual life.
I have just recently gotten in to a relationship and it started out that I could control it a little bit but now it seems the more I do it the worse it gets.
I have started having problems obtaining an erection because I am so worried about trying to control myself. Then when I get an erection I seem to ejaculate real quick because now I am trying to concentrate on getting an erection...
Dec 2, 2012
Sexual Dysfunction
My girlfriend and I have been dating for three weeks now. We care for each other and are affectionate, but there is no passion . . . which is very strange since most of my relationships are very steamy (and short).
One reason I can suggest is that I really cannot have sex with a condom; the latex coating dulls my sensation to the extent that no matter what kind of condom or lubricant I apply, I just do not respond well in intercourse . . . I stay somewhat erect, but have very little...
Dec 2, 2012
Sexual Dysfunction
Dear Dr. Love,
I recently had an incredible sexual experience with my girlfriend. We rested for a half hour or so after we had both had incredible orgasms. After that,'went for it' again. She began to give me oral sex. It was an incredible feeling. But, I couldn't come. I was very hard and at times, it felt like I was about to. But, I never did. As a matter of fact, she has done that 3 or 4 times, and I have never had an orgasm. I seem to have orgasms fine during intercourse. But, an oral...
