Unfinished Business

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Jan 12, 2012
Unfinished Business
I know this guy for around 6 months. We are school mates. We went out a few times for movies, dinner, and even went home together after school. However, things started to change a few months ago. He wasn't as enthusiastic in contacting me as before (we used to chat on facebook almost every night and he would always be the one who started the chat first). At first, I thought that he might be too busy with his studies and didnt manage to have the time to contact me. Therefore, I took the initiative of sms-ing him at least once a week. A few days ago, I confessed to him through...
Jan 3, 2012
Unfinished Business
I hope and pray that my testimony will be put into consideration and get the opportunity to be answered. Coz right now I've lost the lamps of my   judgement! I've had a boyfriend who's 1 year older than me....its been a distance relationship of which somehow I've managed to survive for like two   years, I dealt with a guy that would seem and admit to love you but hardly show it. He could hardly txt me or call me claiming to be busy and naturally   hard on communication, We agreed not to have sex till marriage but unfortunately I found condoms on...
Jan 1, 2012
Unfinished Business
hello! i'm sorry i can't speak english well but i will try to explain my pain.( Note here: Dr. Turndorf has edited the following letter where needed so that the question is clear to her readers.) i met my girl two years ago in the time we’ve known each other she had  a broken heart and i'm the one who helped her to survive. If she needed anyone I was there for her during this time. After she got passed her bad time i think that she liked me and i started to love her but i waited the right time to tell her. but the man who left her called her and asked her to back again and she...
Dec 29, 2011
Unfinished Business
I have been with my boyfriend for the past 10 yrs and we are now leaving together. The only problem is he does not trustMutual trust is a shared belief that you can depend on each other to achieve a common purpose. More comprehensively trust defined as "the willingness of a party (trustor) to be vulnerable to the...(Click for full definition.) me at all. I dont ask him for anything at the end of the month regarding money matters but every month he gives his savings to his sister to put in the bank rather than doing it himself and this tends to offend me as his family is aware of his family...
Dec 6, 2011
Unfinished Business
Dear Dr. Jamie, Thank you for providing this interface. I have been seeing a person for seven years and we were to get married in a few months. To my shock my fiance confessed to an affair with a grossly inappropriate person, his boss older by 27 years. He feels very guilty for having betrayed me and for having spoiled the boss' reputation. My fiance has been through a very difficult childhood having lost his father at a young age to drinking. His family provided him with very little love and care. When we met each other, there was a lot of happiness but slowly we started having...
Sep 20, 2011
Unfinished Business
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years. We live together have two kids and one on the way but over the months it has felt like something has changed when we have sex there is no Passion at ALL. I'm 21 and he is 26 he always puts me down instead of making me feel better about things like he used to he doesn't hold me when we sleep together at night I always have to make the first move he lies about the stupidest things he always tell me how unhappy he is and turns around and says he loves me and wants to be with me he says stuff like I'm a whore I'm nothing I ain'...
Jul 9, 2011
Unfinished Business
Dear Dr. Love, It's been over half a year and I still can't get over my ex girlfriend. I've done everything every site has told me to do to get over her, yet I still find it impossible. I've broken off all communication with her, thrown away anything and everything that reminds me of her, told myself I don't need her, and everything else the internet has instructed me to do. I can't get over her still. Since it's literally impossible to get over her, I wonder at times: Is it fate? Is she my true love? At other times I wonder: Is it because I'm worried?...
Jun 30, 2011
Unfinished Business
Everything was goin great.. me and this guy were talkin for like a month..he took me out on dates like to eat or movies or games.. it was awesome :) i really thought he was goin to ask me out sooner or later.. then... out of nowhere he told me i lied to him.. he said a girl told him that i wasnt a virgin.. :( he believed her. Im still one. I told him since the beginnin.. he didnt believe in me and he even told me to my face :/ it hurt me soo much that i decided not to talk to him again. i know what i am and it jus hurts my heart that he didnt believe me. We were really happy talkin but that...

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