Sex Advice

Relationship Advice

This page lists all my latest advice columns in the Sex Advice categories.

There are three main categories of advice. Click on any of the following links to see a summary of articles in other categories:

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Feb 5, 2013
Sex Advice
Does having sex everyday make it harder for a women to orgasm everyday through over stimulation? As my girlfriend struggles to reach orgasm after she has had one the day before???
Feb 5, 2013
Sex Advice
Dr. Turndorf, I'm in a serious pickle. I'm a 40 year old man who has spent the last 10 years interested in finding the best looking women to have the dirtiest and craziest sex with. I tend to fall completely in love with these women, losing myself to the extreme lust and excitement of pushing the boundaries of normal sex into what can only be described as S&M or fetishism. I have cheated and lied and I am simply not satisfied with vanilla sex or lovemaking. I have been with several...
Jan 27, 2013
Sex Advice
Hello Dr. Turndorf, i am in a complicated situation and i need some advice. I have just turned 17, and i am in a relationship with my second boyfriend for almost a year now. We have a good sexlife and i was always satisfied and happy with him, even though we do not experiment a lot he brings me to orgasm regularly, which i cannot say about the first guys i had sex with. Two weeks ago, i was at a party and something happened. My boyfriend was not there, and there was a guy who kept...
Dec 2, 2012
Sex Advice
I am a 41 yo Caucasian male with a question: I have no problem getting aroused but I find it hard to reach orgasm. This applies to intercourse or masturbation. This is not always the case and restraining from any sexual release for several days may speed things up, but not always. I have taken different antidepressants in the past and the problem was intensified. I have been off antidepressants for about 6 months. Also, after several days without sex, how many times would a normal male be...
Dec 2, 2012
Sex Advice
Dear Dr. Love, I recently had an incredible sexual experience with my girlfriend. We rested for a half hour or so after we had both had incredible orgasms. After that,'went for it' again. She began to give me oral sex. It was an incredible feeling. But, I couldn't come. I was very hard and at times, it felt like I was about to. But, I never did. As a matter of fact, she has done that 3 or 4 times, and I have never had an orgasm. I seem to have orgasms fine during intercourse. But, an oral...
Dec 2, 2012
Sex Advice
My girlfriend and I have been dating for three weeks now. We care for each other and are affectionate, but there is no passion . . . which is very strange since most of my relationships are very steamy (and short). One reason I can suggest is that I really cannot have sex with a condom; the latex coating dulls my sensation to the extent that no matter what kind of condom or lubricant I apply, I just do not respond well in intercourse . . . I stay somewhat erect, but have very little...
Dec 2, 2012
Sex Advice
I am a 30 year old male, and I have had a problem with premature ejaculation all of my sexual life. I have just recently gotten in to a relationship and it started out that I could control it a little bit but now it seems the more I do it the worse it gets. I have started having problems obtaining an erection because I am so worried about trying to control myself. Then when I get an erection I seem to ejaculate real quick because now I am trying to concentrate on getting an erection...
Nov 27, 2012
Sex Advice
Hi, My issue is that I've never really had a normal sex life because of a deep seeded fear that I will not be able to obtain an erection. It's happened to me on more than one occasion with a new partner. I've read in another one of your advise columns that the hormones produced by fear are incompatable with those of sexual arousal. It makes perfect sense. Every time Im in a situation where sex would be initiated with someone Iam not 100% comfortable with I panic and try to avoid it at all...
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