This page lists all my latest advice columns in the Sex Advice categories.
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Nov 6, 2012
I have a question that I would like your opinion on. My husband has been constantly on my back about the way he wants to have sex. I have to let him fall asleep first, wake him up by performing fellatio on him after our son falls asleep. Lately he will not have sex if I don't do this. Now he requests that I shower and shave right before I wake him. Not that morning, right before. I do have a low sex drive and I take responsibility for that, but these constant 'requests' are getting to me. It...
Nov 6, 2012
Dear Dr. Love, I am engaged and very happy with my 'life partner' but I wonder if we are a good match as 'sexual partners.' Sexually I do not feel satisfied. In fact, in my opinion we have never had GOOD SEX, but I fell in love with him. I didn't feel that the lack of sexual gratification should be why I would end a good relationship. But now I wonder if this is something we can work on and improve. Now it is important to me. Can you lead me in a direction? I have discussed this with...
Oct 30, 2012
I am much more interested in sex than my husband. It causes problems in our marriage because I feel he doesn't love me as much because he rejects my advances more often than not. To compensate, I masterbate fairly frequently. We have been married 14 years and have a 4 year old and a 9 month old. I get less sleep by far than he does and yet he still uses the too tired excuse, among others, on a regular basis. If it weren't for the kids and the fact that he is truly a good man, I'd...
Oct 24, 2012
Hey Dr. Love. I have been in a wonderful relationship for about 2 months with a young lady that I find attractive, smart, and funny--all the qualities a man could want. We have done everything a male and female could do with the exception of. . . penis to vagina sex. The problem is everytime my we start to begin the process, I lose my erection. I really like this girl, I'm tempted to say that I love her, but I know that she is just as frustrated as I am about my lack of an erection when it is...
Oct 15, 2012
Hey Im turning 18 in a few weeks and I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7 months now. Both of us are pretty convinced that its love. I pretty much know his entire life and he knows mine. we know each other quite well. I know that we're still teenagers and everyone would say that we dont know what we're talking about, but we think that this is it. that we're gonna stay together forever. We've had rough patches and we always seem to get past them. But recently, whenevr we...
Sep 12, 2012
My wife prefers a vibrator to me. At one time I introduced the toy to our sex life and we both had fun with it. At some point she didn't like me using it and if I do she cuts me off before she becomes too aroused from it. She has never told me why. It wouldn't bother me as much except she uses it! She will have sex with me but she doesn't appear all that interested in it. I plan on talking to her about it but don't think I'll get a satisfying response. Signed...
Aug 14, 2012
Mine is a bit of a sordid tale. I decided to wait for the right guy and despite having boyfriends, they all got frustrated and broke up with me before anything could happen. In retrospect, this is perhaps a good thing because they weren't patient nor good guys but at the same time, it left me being 25 and a virgin. After my last breakup, I ended up losing my virginity to a guy I barely knew who of course never called me again. A month after that, I met a new guy and we courted, dated, but...
Jul 23, 2012
/*I have been with my bf for over 5yrs , it seems he has never really had a high sex drive but now it's at a complete hault.. He is 31 & I'm 26... I feel that we are still young and our sex life should still be at least decent. We have not had sex since our anniversary which was May 11th 2012. It's not like I haven't tried, I try everyday & he refuses.. I have even went to grab his area and he pushed me away. I've also jumped on him naked and he still denied me. He wont have sex...