This page lists all my latest advice columns in the Sex Advice categories.
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May 7, 2007
Hi Dr, I was never touched much growing up and sex talk was never talked about. My dad never was much on touching me when young. My mom was the same. I feel gay tendencies, like wanting to see another man's penis or touch it when I'm with a guy in private. I mean what is wrong with me Dr. I've had girlfriend's Dr. , but always to no avail. I feel a little frustrated when I'm with an attractive woman like here in town, like all I want is sex with her and that 's all. I mean I know it's...
Mar 26, 2007
I need help in the initiating sex department. I am 35 and married with three children. I have been married for 16 years and my husband has always done the initiating. Now he says he will not initiate and will hold out on me until I initiate. For some reason I am not sure what to do. We are not big kissers (he chews Skoal) so I never know whether he has a chew in or not-so we don't kiss very often at all. Please help--my marriage is in trouble.
Feb 26, 2007
I have an interesting problem. I am 28 years old and my boyfriend is the same age. We are both healthy and both above average in looks. I believe that when we make love I satisfy him (I sure hope I do). And as far as holding hands, kissing me, and spending time with me he seems interested in me. But he won't have sex with me. We have been together a year and the most active period I was getting it twice a month. Now I have had sex twice in the past three months. I am at my wit's end. I love him...
Feb 19, 2007
My husband had very little sexual experience prior to our marriage 2 years ago.I was married previously with a healthy sexual relationship. We are in our 40's. Before my husband and I were married in 2003, we discussed sex. We are both Christian and wanted to abstain until we were married. He did tell me that he hoped I would teach him. Can you direct me to some books or articles which could help me show him how to be more verbal and to help me teach him some technique?Thank you for any ideas.
Oct 30, 2006
Dear Dr. Love, I have been dating my boyfriend for seven months now and the topic of sex has never been an issue. Because of my upbringing I have always felt that I needed to remain a virgin until my wedding night. This feeling has evolved from years of preaching and counseling from my church leaders and my parents. Now, I am in a relationship I thing has great potential and could be the one. My inner emotions grow stronger and stronger daily for him and I feel as if I have never been any...
Oct 6, 2006
Hi, I recently got married, to a wonderful woman, with whom I'm very much in love. I'm 29, and she's 24. I've been in a few relationships before, but this is her first serious one. The problem is that, when we make love, if she has an orgasm, it's invariably very powerful, and everything is fine. However, if she doesn't have an orgasm, for whatever reason, it's absolute hell, as she gets quite upset and her mood totally changes, rejecting all attempts to kiss, cuddle or even...
Oct 24, 2005
Hello Dr. Turndorf, My name is Mike and I'm 23 years old. My wife is 42 years old. I know that 's a big diffrence in age, but ever since I layed my eyes on her I just couldn't stop thinking about her. Here is my problem, for the first year and a half our sex life was great, but now it's like she doesn't even want anything to do with me. Is it me or is there something that I'm missing in this battle to get some love time. Please help me understand. Thank you for your time.
Oct 3, 2005
Hi Dr. Turndorf I am 26, an at-home mum of two and last fall on three separate occasions I caught my neighbor standing 18' from his bedroom window with a light directed at his genitals--completely naked and masturbating, looking in my kitchen window. I told my husband last fall and he went over and politely threatened the guy to close his curtains. It hasn't happened again until last week, when it happened twice. He waits until his wife leaves for work. Instead of waiting for my rage-...