Power Struggles
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Dec 29, 2011
Power Struggles
I have been with my boyfriend for the past 10 yrs and we are now leaving together. The only problem is he does not trustMutual trust is a shared belief that you can depend on each other to achieve a common purpose.
More comprehensively trust defined as "the willingness of a party (trustor) to be vulnerable to the...(Click for full definition.) me at all. I dont ask him for anything at the end of the month regarding money matters but every month he gives his savings to his sister to put in the bank rather than doing it himself and this tends to offend me as his family is aware of his family...
Aug 14, 2011
Power Struggles
Dr. Love. Here's my story.
Me and my ex of 3 and a half years broke up back in December out of stupidity, ego (on both parts). At first, she begged me back but I was too consumed with anger to accept her. And within weeks I fell into a rebound relationship which lasted for a couple of weeks. Well I did sleep with my rebound and foolishly admitted that to my love (cause I thought honestyMany people believe that "honesty is the best policy" in intimate relationships. Nothing could be further from the truth. Practicing this philosophy by speaking your mind at all costs may cost you...(Click...
May 24, 2011
Power Struggles
My girlfriend drinks alcohol even if I am preventing her. Do I have the authority to stop her?
Signed: over protective
Apr 9, 2007
Power Struggles
Well Doc, my name is Joe and I messed up big time!
I was in a relationship for almost 8 years. Just in the past 2 weeks my world has come crashing down around me. We have had problems on and off all 8 years but we always seemed to work them out or so I thought.
He came to me and told me that he hasn't been happy for a while and that he thinks that we should break up. Now he says that he still loves me and I love him but things will never change like for example me spending time with him (he like racing cars and band stuff).
And as for myself I'm a home body. I will say I put a lot of the...
Mar 26, 2007
Power Struggles
I need help in the initiating sex department. I am 35 and married with three children. I have been married for 16 years and my husband has always done the initiating. Now he says he will not initiate and will hold out on me until I initiate. For some reason I am not sure what to do. We are not big kissers (he chews Skoal) so I never know whether he has a chew in or not-so we don't kiss very often at all. Please help--my marriage is in trouble.
Oct 18, 2004
Power Struggles
DR LOVE,
I am married for 37 years and am 58 years old. Is it normal to take notice particularly of women wearing high heels? My wife thinks I am wierd but don't a lot of men like to look at women in high heels?
My wife wears 3 inch high heels on occasion and I know it makes her legs look nice. What do you think about this?
May 3, 2004
Power Struggles
Whenever my husband and i go on any outing i get mad cause he is always moving ahead of me and when i would tell him to wait up he gets really mad and would tell me he does not see why he needs to wait on me. . . .
this really bothers me cause i like us to do things together and that make me upset with him and it spoils our outing cause he will not talk to me and i won't talk with him. . . . how can i make him see that doing things together is important in our relationship. . help
Apr 26, 2004
Power Struggles
Hey its my first time on this site and i am having alot of problems with my boyfriend and my parents. . first to begin my parents do not like my boyfriend very much and they are trying to keep us apart. .
what should i do?





