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Guy Who's Loved a Married Man from Afar for Years
Nov 11, 2011
Monogamy
Dear Dr. Love, I’m a 47 year old gay man (still in the closet). I work with a 50 year old married man who I think is into me, but doesn’t know how to express himself. We’ve been working together for almost 8 years in a small warehouse environment. Over the years we have become quite close. He has confided in me about his finances sometimes and we go out to lunch often. We always have a few beers and I get the feeling he wants to know if I’m into him. Its very akward as I have a hard time expressing myself as well unless I’m tanked. I’ve stayed at his house...
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Does She Love Me or is it Friendship?
Aug 5, 2010
Monogamy
I am married, 45 years old, loving wife, 2 children. I live alone in a foreign country. My family is in my home country. In my workplace, I came across a married woman. She is one of the prettiest women I have ever seen. We have been working on a project for the last 3 months. Although I was fascinated by her beauty and speech, I did not dare to show any love intentions.  She is a very calm, quiet woman and knows what she is doing. She is married and it is a love marriage. About a few weeks ago, I started noticing her gestures demonstrating high levels of shy feeling, like smiles,...
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Is He Cheating?
Jun 19, 2007
Monogamy
My boyfriend and I are extremely happy. I've never been so happy and he sincerely seems to feel just the same. So, I was shaken to the core when I recently found out that he has been checking out pics of local girls on 'myspace'. He's with me all the time, I know he isn't out actually meeting other people. And he swears that he is truly not searching for someone new. Can this be chalked up to and dealt with as male curiosity. Or is it more likely a warning sign? I'm really sick about this! Please help as soon as you can, I very much look forward to reading your response!!!
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Confused Closet Case
Feb 2, 2004
Monogamy
Dear Dr Love, GREAT COLUMNS! I am a 22 closeted gay male who likes one of my best friends of 5 years (male). Throughout the 5 years we've made numerous gay jokes to and about each other. We've even sat beside each other in our boxers and tshirts before a few times, (long story). He is kind of seeing a girl now though, and the jokes have gotten less and less. I'm pretty sure they haven't gotten that physical. He is also very discreet about their realtionship and doesn't tell me alot about things between them. Before this he hadn't had a g/f in about 6 years and had had no interest in getting...
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You Freaked When She Said I Love You
Nov 26, 2001
Monogamy
Dr Love, I have been married for 10 years and have a 14 year-old adopted daughter from my wife's previous marriage). I am happily married and always have been. My wife and I have never fought, rarely disagreed, and are completely monogamous. Other than working too much, I have nothing to complain about. I work incessantly to pay bills (16 hours per day, six days a week). I gave up my dream of becoming a writer to make money and have been successful. I have a comfortable but dreary and bland existence. However, I have a loving and supportive wife and family that make it possible to get up each...
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Long and Involved Tale of Woe
May 28, 2001
Monogamy
Hope you can give me some advice. . . I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now. It's not a particularly heavy relationship, but is my first proper, monogamous, committed relationship, although I've had a lot of one-nighters and casual relationships up to now. It's taken me seven years and 75 men to find someone special enough to commit to, so you can appreciate just how important this is to me. My man works in a high-stress managerial job, and has to work all week in London (which he hates), so I only get to see him at weekends. I spend all week just killing time until I get to see...
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Wondering If My Boyfriend is Gay
Jul 3, 2000
Monogamy
Dear Dr. Love: I have caught my boyfriend looking at gay porn, answering personal ads for couples looking for a third that is male, joining Internet clubs for Gay Sex in our city. I have confronted him every time and asked if he is gay or bisexual, and he swears 'no, I'm not gay or bi'and claims he was just playing around because he was bored. I love him so much and aside from these things, our year and half relationship has been the best I've ever had. BUT, I am now having nightmares about seeing him having sex with men. I am getting depressed about it frequently, and I am...
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Why Am I Not Having Orgasms During Sex
May 31, 1999
Monogamy
hi. . i am a 16 year old girl and i have an imbarrising question when me and my boyfriend have sex i do not have an orgasm at al he has to rub on the upper part of my private part in order for me to have one and then i have to some times picture women haveing forceful sex what does this mean?? i am not a lesbian or anything am i??? and why am i not having orgasms during sex. . . please help me!!!
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